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Monday, 24 August 2026

Who are people of understanding mentioned in Al Qur'an (Surah 13, Ar Ra'ad - the Thunder)

Who are the people of understanding? The context begins earlier with 13:17, where truth is compared to beneficial water and falsehood to temporary foam. Then 13:19 asks whether the person who recognizes revelation as truth can be like someone spiritually blind. It concludes that only ulū al-albāb—people of sound understanding—take heed. From henceforth verses 13:20-22 tells us how to recognize "the people of understanding" in real life. So let keep the verses 17 and 19 in the back of our mind and then talk about these exclsuive people that Al Qur'an makes a mention of in verses 20-22:

Context
The phrase “people of understanding” — أُولُو الْأَلْبَابِ (ulū al-albāb) actually appears at the end of Surah Ar-Raʿd 13:19, while 13:20 begins to describe their qualities:

الَّذِينَ يُوفُونَ بِعَهْدِ اللَّهِ وَلَا يَنقُضُونَ الْمِيثَاقَ
“Those who fulfil the covenant of Allah and do not break their pledge.” — 13:20

So verses 13:19–24 form one connected portrait of what a truly intelligent, spiritually awake person looks like.

Who exactly are ulū al-albāb?
The Arabic lubb means the inner core or essence of something. Ulū al-albāb therefore means people possessing sound, purified intellect—not merely intelligence or education. A person may be brilliant academically and still be morally foolish. In Qur’anic terms, a person of understanding is someone who:

Recognizes truth → reflects upon it → accepts it → allows it to change his conduct.

That last step is crucial.

Al-Saʿdī explicitly explains 13:19 as contrasting those who understand the truth and act upon it with those who neither recognize nor follow it. He describes ulū al-albāb as people possessing mature, sound minds.

How Scholars explain People of Understanding

Ibn Kathīr says that ulū al-albāb are people of sound and correct intellect who recognize the truth of revelation, take admonition from it, and respond to it. He then connects 13:20 onward with their practical character. They fulfil Allah’s covenant rather than behaving like hypocrites who betray trusts, lie or break promises.
  • This gives an important definition:
    • Understanding in the Qur’an is demonstrated by character.
    • You do not become one of ulū al-albāb merely because you can explain many verses.
    • You become one when those verses begin shaping how you keep promises, treat relatives, handle money, respond to wrongdoing and worship Allah.
Why is fulfilling covenants mentioned first? This is very significant. After praising “people of understanding,” Allah does not first say that they are philosophers, scholars or highly educated.

He says: “They fulfil the covenant of Allah and do not break the pledge.”

But why? Because one of the clearest proofs of genuine faith is reliability. Anyone can speak beautifully about morality. But when there is money, pressure, inconvenience or personal advantage involved, will the person still honour his commitment? This is where understanding becomes character. A business contract, marriage commitment, promise to a friend, public responsibility or trust placed in our hands—all become tests of whether we genuinely live by the truth we claim to know.

Sayyid Abul Ala Maududi explains that this Covenant is the same that was made by Allah with the whole of mankind at the beginning of the creation that they would worship Him alone. As this Covenant has been made with every human being, it has been imbued firmly in human nature. When a human being is born in this world, he, so to say, confines the same Covenant because he owes his creation to the same Allah with Whom he had made that Covenant: then he is brought up by His Providence and fed and nourished with His Provisions, and uses the powers and faculties endowed by Him. AII these things bind him by themselves into a covenant of bondage with his Lord. It is obvious that wise, loyal and faithful people fulfill their Covenant and dare not break it except that they might break it unconsciously and unwillingly.

The full portrait of People of Understanding 
Verses 20-22 paint the full portrait of the People of Understanding, through several qualities:
  • They keep their covenants — 13:20. Their word means something.
  • They maintain relationships — 13:21. They do not casually sever family and social bonds.
  • They fear Allah and accountability — 13:21. They realize actions have consequences beyond this life.
  • They are patient for Allah’s sake — 13:22. Their patience is principled, not merely passive.
  • They establish prayer — 13:22. Their relationship with Allah is disciplined.
  • They spend from what Allah has given them — 13:22. Their faith makes them generous.
And remarkably: وَيَدْرَءُونَ بِالْحَسَنَةِ السَّيِّئَةَ “They repel evil with good.” — 13:22 That may be one of their highest characteristics. Instead of automatically returning insult with insult, hostility with hostility, and evil with evil, they try to break the cycle.

Are such people found today?
Certainly. The Qur’an describes a type of character, not merely a generation that existed fourteen centuries ago. We may find ulū al-albāb today in people who quietly:
  • Keep a promise even when breaking it would make them money;
  • Refuse a bribe even when everyone around them accepts one;
  • Care for elderly parents despite inconvenience;
  • Maintain family ties despite disagreements;
  • Admit that an opponent is right when evidence supports him;
  • Give charity without publicity;
  • Remain honest when dishonesty would be easier;
  • and respond to hostility without abandoning justice.
They may not be famous. In fact, some of the finest people of understanding may never have large platforms or public recognition. Yet their intelligence appears in their choices.

A modern misunderstanding of intelligence
Our age tends to measure intelligence through degrees, technical knowledge, IQ, wealth or professional success.

The Qur’an introduces another standard: Can you recognize what ultimately matters?
  • Someone may know how to build a business empire yet destroy his family through arrogance.
  • Someone may understand complex technology yet be unable to control anger.
  • Someone may have enormous knowledge yet sacrifice truth for money.
The Qur’an would not necessarily call that lubb—deep understanding. True understanding integrates mind, conscience and action.

How can we emulate them?
The best way is to take 13:20–22 almost as a personal checklist.
  • When you promise something, fulfil it.
  • When relationships become difficult, try to repair rather than unnecessarily sever them.
  • Before making a questionable decision, remember that Allah knows what people do not know.
  • When hardship comes, practice ṣabr rather than bitterness.
  • Build your day around ṣalāh rather than squeezing prayer into leftover time.
  • Use some of what Allah has given you for others.
  • And when someone harms you, ask whether responding with dignity, forgiveness or goodness might achieve more than retaliation.
However, this does not mean tolerating oppression. Repelling evil with good can include firm justice, but without allowing evil to reproduce itself inside our own character.

The beautiful sequence from 13:17 to 13:22
There is a remarkable progression:

13:17 — Truth is distinguished from falsehood.
13:19 — The person of understanding recognizes that truth.
13:20–22 — Recognition becomes character and action.

That progression gives us a profound definition of ulū al-albāb: They are not simply people who know the truth; they are people whose lives bear witness that they have understood it.

And perhaps the best question to ask ourselves after reading these verses is:

Has what I know about Allah and the Qur’an actually made me more truthful, reliable, patient, generous and forgiving?

If the answer increasingly becomes yes, then we are moving toward the character of the ulū al-albāb—the people of true understanding

Concluding Remarks
To emulate them, we can treat 13:20–22 as a personal checklist: keep promises, honour trusts and contracts, preserve family ties, remember accountability before Allah, practice patience for His sake, establish prayer, spend generously, and when harmed, respond in a way that prevents evil from multiplying. The essence is this: People of understanding are those whose knowledge becomes character. They do not merely say, “I know the truth.” Their lives say, “I have understood it.”
May Allāh (سبحانه و تعالى‎) help us understand Qur'ān and follow the Sunnah of Prophet Muhammad ﷺ, which is embodiment of commandments of Allah contained in the Qur'ān. May Allah help us to be like the ones He loves and let our lives be lived helping others and not making others' lives miserable or unlivable. May all our wrong doings, whether intentional or unintentional, be forgiven before the angel of death knocks on our door. 
وَمَا عَلَيۡنَاۤ اِلَّا الۡبَلٰغُ الۡمُبِيۡنُ‏ 
(36:17) and our duty is no more than to clearly convey the Message.”
That is Our duty is only to convey to you the message that Allah has entrusted us with. Then it is for you to accept it or reject it. We have not been made responsible for making you accept it forcibly, and if you do not accept it, we shall not be seized in consequence of your disbelief, you will yourselves be answerable for your actions on Day of Resurrection.

May Allah forgive me if my posts ever imply a piety far greater than I possess. I am most in need of guidance.

Reading the Qur'ān should be a daily obligation of a Muslim - Reading it with translation will make it meaningful. But reading its Exegesis / Tafsir will make you understand it fully. It will also help the Muslims to have grasp over social issues and their answers discussed in the Qur'an and other matter related to inter faith so that they are able to discuss issues with non-Muslims with authority based on refences from Qur'an.

Note: When we mention God in our posts, we mean One True God, we call Allah in Islam, with no associates. Allah is the Sole Creator of all things, and that Allah is all-powerful and all-knowing. Allah has no offspring, no race, no gender, no body, and is unaffected by the characteristics of human life.

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    Sunday, 20 July 2025

    A good Muslim should NEVER boast of his wealth nor expose his secrets

    The main theme of Islam is peace: Peace within and peace without. That means, one should be ever contended of what he has been blessed with and should never boast of what he has or what secrets are hidden in his heart. If one boasts of his wealth, both material and spiritual, it may hurt others who are not so gifted. Likewise exposing one's secrets or affairs of one's household mahis position weaken which may be taken advantage of those on the lookout of one's weak points so as to exploit the one who is too weak to keep his secrets to himself. 

    For these very reasons, Islam forbids boasting and concealing one's secrets for deeply spiritual, psychological, and social reasons. These teachings are rooted in humility, sincerity (ikhlas), protection from envy and harm, and fostering a healthy, modest society. Boasting—especially about wealth, knowledge, achievements, or good deeds—stems from ego (kibr) and pride / traits is  strongly condemned in Islam.

    "Do not exult (boast), for Allah does not love the boastful." — Surah Al-Qasas 28:76

    AS for concealing one's secrets, the Prophet has advised Muslims to do so and said: “Seek help in the accomplishment of your needs by being discreet, for everyone who is blessed is envied.”

    With this premise, let us share a few verses from Al Qur'an and Hadiths which forbid a good Muslim from boasting and advises not to to expose his secrets publicly. In time, we will expand meaning of each of these Qur'anic verses and Hadiths for better understanding Islam and living a life of a good Muslim:
    • Do not exhibit your charities and zakat (Surah 2. Al Baqarah: 271)
    • Do not relate your vision or intentions to others (Surah 12. Yusuf:5)
    • Do not divulge to others some secret kept with you as a trust (Sahi al-Bukhārī: 33)
    • Conceal your sins (Hadith quoted in Sahi al-Bukhārī as Hadith number 6069)
    • Do not expose sins of others (Sahi  Muslim Hadith 2590)
    • Do not expose you marital life secrets (Sahi Muslim 1437)
    Islam’s approach is not to suppress joy or success—but to channel it with humility, privacy, and balance. You're encouraged to thank Allah, not show off to people; and to share good when it benefits others, not when it fuels ego.

    May Allāh (سبحانه و تعالى‎) help us understand Qur'ān and follow the Sunnah of Prophet Muhammad ﷺ, which is embodiment of commandments of Allah contained in the Qur'ān. May Allah help us to be like the ones He loves and let our lives be lived helping others and not making others' lives miserable or unlivable. May all our wrong doings, whether intentional or unintentional, be forgiven before the angel of death knocks on our door. 

    وَمَا عَلَيۡنَاۤ اِلَّا الۡبَلٰغُ الۡمُبِيۡنُ‏ 
    (36:17) and our duty is no more than to clearly convey the Message.”
    That is Our duty is only to convey to you the message that Allah has entrusted us with. Then it is for you to accept it or reject it. We have not been made responsible for making you accept it forcibly, and if you do not accept it, we shall not be seized in consequence of your disbelief, you will yourselves be answerable for your actions on Day of Resurrection.

    May Allah forgive me if my posts ever imply a piety far greater than I possess. I am most in need of guidance.

    Reading the Qur'ān should be a daily obligation of a Muslim - Reading it with translation will make it meaningful. But reading its Exegesis / Tafsir will make you understand it fully. It will also help the Muslims to have grasp over social issues and their answers discussed in the Qur'an and other matter related to inter faith so that they are able to discuss issues with non-Muslims with authority based on refences from Qur'an.

    Note: When we mention God in our posts, we mean One True God, we call Allah in Islam, with no associates. Allah is the Sole Creator of all things, and that Allah is all-powerful and all-knowing. Allah has no offspring, no race, no gender, no body, and is unaffected by the characteristics of human life.

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    Monday, 19 August 2019

    Four Things a Muslim Should Never Leave


    Islam is a wonderful religion for it provides immense opportunities to a true believer to live a blessed life. And the most amazing thing is that to be blessed, one doesn't have to work very hard. Small things, gestures, prayers, thankfulness and repentance is all what is needed to draw blessing from Allah.

    Today a friend shared four things with me that a Muslim should never leave to stay blessed and receive Allah's unlimited rewards and bounties for Allah is always on the lookout for His servants who are busy remembering Him and seeking His pleasure. 

    Without going into any further premise, let me go down straight to these small four acts which would take him closer to Allah:

    Being Thankful to Allah
    Yes, simply thankfulness. If we carry out a reappraisal of ourselves, we will find that Allah has given us far more than we truly deserve, and many of these blessings have been without even asking. Instead of lamenting of not having what others have, we must always be thankful for what we have and other do not have. A very large portion of the world population lives in deprivation and utter poverty. But we only look towards those who have a better car, house, job or worldly pleasures better than us. But we never compare ourselves with those who are suffering and cannot even afford a good meal in a day.

    So thank Allah all the time for what has been given to us and what others do not have. The more one thanks Allah, the more pleased Allah is and gives them more:

    وَاِذۡ تَاَذَّنَ رَبُّكُمۡ لَـئِنۡ شَكَرۡتُمۡ لَاَزِيۡدَنَّـكُمۡ​ وَلَـئِنۡ كَفَرۡتُمۡ اِنَّ عَذَابِىۡ لَشَدِيۡدٌ‏ 
    "Also call to mind when your Lord proclaimed: "If you give thanks, I will certainly grant you more; but if you are ungrateful for My favours, My chastisement is terrible." [Surah Ibrahim 14:7]

    In the above verse, Allah promises more to those who thank Him and are grateful to Him for having been blessed. But along with it comes a warning too: "But if you are ungrateful for My favours, My chastisement is terrible.

    Allah tests His servants by giving them more even without asking to see whether they are grateful to Him or boast to others of their own abilities due to which they are being better than others. When such an approach of being ungrateful starts to take place, it invokes Allah's wrath and needless to mention "Allah's chastisement is terrible."

    So always be grateful and thankful to Allah for it will usher in more blessings to you and your family. And do not forget to help others who have been blessed less as Allah has blessed us for we never truly deserved His bounties.

    Remembering Allah
    No matter in which condition you may be, never forget to remember Allah. The more you remember Allah, the more He will remember you:

    فَاذۡكُرُوۡنِىۡٓ اَذۡكُرۡكُمۡ وَاشۡکُرُوۡا لِىۡ وَلَا تَكۡفُرُوۡنِ
    "So remember Me and I shall remember you; give thanks to Me and do not be ungrateful to Me for My favours." [Surah Al Baqarah 2: 152]‏  

    The above quoted verse says it all and is an add up to what has been written earlier. Those who remember Allah, they will be reciprocated accordingly. In fact remembering Allah is thanking Him so as not being ungrateful to Him for His favours. Offering prayers five times a day no matter where one may is the best form of thanking Allah. 

    Praying (Dua)
    Dua (prayer) is the most powerful tool in the hands of a true Muslim to invoke Allah's pleasures and goodwill. Those who profusely pray to allah whenever in need or even otherwise are never returned empty handed:

    وَقَالَ رَبُّكُمُ ادۡعُوۡنِىۡۤ اَسۡتَجِبۡ لَـكُمۡؕ اِنَّ الَّذِيۡنَ يَسۡتَكۡبِرُوۡنَ عَنۡ عِبَادَتِىۡ سَيَدۡخُلُوۡنَ جَهَنَّمَ دَاخِرِيۡنَ
    "Your Lord said: “Pray to Me, and I will accept your prayers. Surely those who wax too proud to worship Me shall enter Hell, utterly abased.” [Surah Mu'min 40:60]

    Allah categorically says here that "you should not pray to others but pray to Me." To understand the spirit of this verse well, three points should be comprehended properly:
    • First, man should pray only to Allah and not the wordily deities who are themselves dependent upon Allah's mercy. Pray to the One Who is All- Hearing and All-Seeing and is Possessor of supernatural powers. And the real motive of prayer for man is the internal feeling that the natural means and resources of the material world are not enough to remove any of his troubles and to fulfill any of his needs, or are not proving to be enough. Therefore, a true believer must invoke that Being even without having seen Him; he invokes Him at all times, at all places, and under all circumstances; he invokes Him in solitude, aloud as well as in a low voice, and even in the depths of his heart. He does so inevitably on the basis of the belief that that Being is watching him everywhere, is also hearing whatever he has in his heart, and possesses such absolute powers that, it can come to the help of the supplicant wherever he is, and can help him out of every trouble and difficulty. After having known this truth about the prayer, it remains no longer difficult for man to understand that the one who invokes another than Allah for help, commits shirk absolutely and purely and clearly, for he believes those attributes to be belonging to the other being, which only belong to Allah. Had he not believed the other being to be an associate of Allah in the divine attributes, he would never have even thought of invoking it for help.
    • Second, one should fully understand that man’s merely thinking about a being that it is the possessor of powers and authority, does not necessitate that it should actually become possessor of the powers and authority. Being possessor of powers and authority is a factual matter, which is not dependent on somebody’s understanding or not understanding it. The one who is actually the Possessor of the powers will in any case remain the Possessor whether man regards Him so or not. And the one who is not in reality the possessor, will not be able to have any share whatever in the powers only because man has believed it to be possessing the powers. There is none else in this Universe, who may have any power to hear the prayers and to answer them or reject them. Those who entertain the belief that some prophets, saints, angels, jinns, planets or imaginary gods also are shareholders in the powers, the reality will not change in any way whatsoever. The Owner will remain the Owner and the helpless servants will remain the servants.
    • Thirdly, the one who invokes others than Allah behaves like the supplicant who takes his petition to a government office, but leaving aside the real officer who has authority, presents it before one of the other supplicants who may be present there with his petition, and then starts imploring him humbly, saying: you possess all the powers, and yours is the only authority here; so, you alone can fulfill my needs. Such a conduct, in the first place, is in itself highly foolish, but in a case like this it also amounts to high insolence, because the real officer who has the authority, is present and before his very eyes applications and petitions are being made before another, apart from him. Then this ignorance and folly reaches its height when the person before whom the petition is being presented makes the petitioner understand over and over again that he himself is a petitioner like him and possesses no power at all, and that the real officer who has the powers is present, and he should make his petition before him. But in spite of this counsel and warning, the foolish person goes on saying: You are my lord, you alone can fulfill my need.
    Keeping these three things in view, one should try to understand what Allah has said here: Call upon Me, I shall answer your prayers, it is for Me to accept them.

    In the verse above, Dua (prayer) and ibadat (worship) have been used as synonyms. The prayer of the first sentence has been called worship in the second. This makes it explicit that prayer itself is worship, rather the essence of worship.

    According to Numan bin Bashir, the Prophet (peace be upon him) said: The prayer is the very essence of worship. Then he recited this verse. (Ahmad, Tirmidhi, Abu Daud, Nasai, Ibn Majah, Ibn Abu Hatim, Ibn Jarir). According to Anas, the Prophet (peace be upon him) said: Prayer is the marrow of worship. (Tirmidhi). Abu Hurairah says that the Prophet (peace be upon him) said: Allah becomes angry with him who does not ask Him for anything. (Tirmidhi).

    It would be pertinent to mention here the enigma that often causes confusion in the minds is also resolved. In connection with prayer, people say that when the evil or the good destiny is in the control of Allah and whatever He has already decreed in accordance with His dominant wisdom and expedience has to take place inevitably. What is then the use of the prayer? This is a serious misunderstanding which destroys the importance of prayer from the heart of man, and with this false notion even if man prays, his prayer would be soulless. The above verse of the Quran removes this misunderstanding in two ways:
    • In the first place, Allah says in clear words: Call upon Me: I will answer your prayers. This proves that fate or destiny is not something which, God forbid, might have tied the hands of Allah Himself also, and the powers to answer the prayer might have been withdrawn from Him. The creatures have no power to avert or change the decrees of Allah: but Allah Himself certainly has the power to change His decrees and decisions on hearing a servant’s prayer and petition. 
    • The other thing that has been stated in this verse is that whether a prayer is accepted or not, it is never without an advantage. The servant by presenting his petition before his Lord and by praying to Him acknowledges His Lordship and Supremacy and admits his own servitude and helplessness before Him. This expression of servitude is in itself worship, rather the essence of worship of whose reward the servant will in no case be deprived, irrespective of whether he is granted the particular thing for which he had prayed or not.
    The aspect of prayer (dua) is explained in the sayings of the Prophet (peace be upon him). Salman Farsi relates that the Prophet (peace be upon him) said: Nothing can avert destiny but the prayer. (Tirmidhi). That is, no one has the power to change the decisions of Allah but Allah Himself can change His decisions, and this happens when the servant prays to Him.

    However, while praying one must be very mindful of one's language. Abu Hurairah says that the Prophet (peace be upon him) said: Whenever one of you prays, he should not say: O God, forgive me if You so please, show me mercy if You so please, grant me provisions if You so please, but he should say definitely: O God, fulfill my such and such need. (Bukhari).

    There the Prophet (peace be upon him) said: Pray to Allah with the certainty that He will answer it. (Tirmidhi). The servant’s prayer is granted provided that he does not pray for a sin or for severing connections with the kindred. 

    Continuous Astaghfar [Repentance]
    "Astaghfar" means to pray to Allah that He may protect the supplicant from the evil consequences and poisonous influences of His transgressions and misdeeds, both in this world and the hereafter.

    وَمَا كَانَ اللّٰهُ لِيُعَذِّبَهُمۡ وَاَنۡتَ فِيۡهِمۡ​ؕ وَمَا كَانَ اللّٰهُ مُعَذِّبَهُمۡ وَهُمۡ يَسۡتَغۡفِرُوۡنَ‏ 
    "But Allah was not to chastise them while you are in their midst; nor was Allah going to chastise them while they sought His forgiveness." [Surah Anfal 8:33]

    Asking for forgiveness of Allah is to accept that one has sinned or done a bad deed that may have hurt others. But repentance  / astaghfar means taking a solemn pledge of not repeating the sin again. Those who recognize that they have been negligent and heedless and have been guilty of iniquity, and thus seek Allah's forgiveness and strive to reform themselves are one of the most liked servants of Allah. For they not only acknowledge their sins and ask for forgiveness, but also pledge to reform themselves so as not to repeat any such act that displeases Allah.

    Allah promises the believers that those who wholeheartedly confess and sincerely repent, would be forgiven:
    فَمَنۡ تَابَ مِنۡۢ بَعۡدِ ظُلۡمِهٖ وَاَصۡلَحَ فَاِنَّ اللّٰهَ يَتُوۡبُ عَلَيۡهِؕ اِنَّ اللّٰهَ غَفُوۡرٌ رَّحِيۡمٌ‏ 
    But whosoever repents after his crime and does righteous good deeds (by obeying Allah), then verily, Allah will pardon him (accept his repentance). Verily, Allah is Oft Forgiving, Most Merciful." [Surah al-Maa’idah 5:39]  
    Usually Muslims say "Astaghfirullah" when they see someone doing an utterly bad deed. Astaghfirullah  literally translates to "I seek forgiveness in Allah". But remember, as explained earlier, forgiveness is the first step, which must be followed by repentance for without pledging wholeheartedly not to reform oneself, asking for forgiveness bears no meaning.

    So what do we do when we err, sin or do a wrong thing? Here are four steps one should so straightaway:
    • Ask forgiveness from the one who we have harmed and try to make good the loss so incurred to him
    • Beg for mercy and forgiveness from Allah (glorified and exalted be He).
    • Regret from the heart of the heart for the sin so committed.
    • Refrain from re-committing a sin or misdeed immediately.
    • Take a solemn pledge never to return to any sin or wrongdoing again.
    Here it must be remembered that the sin / wrongdoing or transgression involved infringes on the rights of other (s), then one must return the infringed rights back to the individual to whom they belong. And then thereafter, try one's level best not to sin, err, or do a thing that is contrary to teachings of Islam.

    Remember no priest, saint or a holy man can listen to your confession and assure you of your forgiveness. This matter is directly between the sinner and the God. For Allah is the Most Ever Forgiving and in fact All Forgiving. It is for this attribute of Allah that He is called Al Ghaffar  (الغفار) - The All-Forgiving, The Absolver,  Al-Ghafur (الغفور) - The Forgiving, The Pardoner, Al-'Afuw (العفو) - The Pardoner 

    For details please read our earlier post on Repentance which also contains an enlightening commentary on "How do we know that our repentance has been accepted."

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    Sunday, 28 July 2019

    Understanding Islam: Traits of a True Muslim


    Islam is oft portrayed by non Muslims as a militant religion, preaching hate and spreading violence around the world. This observation is often made after a suicide attack or a hate speech made by some emotional cleric or by the acts of some radical Muslims. But they fail to understand that despite all these charges, more and more non Muslims, even of other Divine faiths, are reverting to Islam and living very contended lives after coming under the fold of Islam.

    What is it they find in Islam that they could not find in their religion of birth then? I  have shared many accounts of reverts herein my blog and they all confessed that it is in Islam that they have finally found peace of mind and have since then been living  a far contended life than before.

    Actually the problem is that non Muslims look at some Muslims who are radicals, a behaviors that comes due to inadequate knowledge of Islam. Yes let me say that becasue many born Muslims may not have read Qur'an with its detailed meaning and with reference to the context. Thus shallow knowledge makes them emotional rather than being rationale, which in fact is the essence of Islam.

    In a other forum, I came across a question about why Muslims (in fact the question should have said "Why Some Muslims') do not portray traits of a true Muslim. And my answer to them is that they have never really pondered what traits they must inculcate in them as spelt out for them in the Holy Qur'an. With this in mind, let me list down the traits of a true Muslim as spelt out in the last verses of Surah Al Furqan, the 25th chapter of the Holy Qur'an:
    (25:63) The true servants of the Merciful One are those who walk on the earth gently and when the foolish ones address them, they simply say: "Peace to you";
    To be a true Muslim, the basic trait is humility in everything he does. In fact the very gait of a Muslim who lives a life of humility attracts others towards him. In complete humility he always addresses the ignorant people with words of peace, and spends the night worshiping Allah and asking to be kept safe from the fires of Hell.  They are not extravagant nor stingy and they never invoke any deity but Allah.  They do not kill except for a just reason, and they do not commit adultery or fornication.  Allah is able to change the bad deeds into good for those who repent and become righteous.  The believers do not bear false witness; they pass by frivolity with dignity and take head of God’s signs and revelations.  These are the ones whose patience will be rewarded with Paradise, where they will be welcomed with greetings and salutations and shall live forever.  Prophet Muhammad is told to say that God does not care if you invoke Him or not but if you reject His revelations you will face the punishment.

    As for humility, Muslims are commanded to observe humility at other places in the Holy Qur'an as well:  "And do not turn your cheek [in contempt] toward people and do not walk through the earth exultantly. Indeed, Allah does not like everyone self-deluded and boastful." [Surah Luqman, 31:18]
    (25:64) who spend the night prostrating themselves before their Lord and standing;
    Humble prayer brings them nearer to Allah. And more nearer one comes to Allah, more humility and humbleness is infused in his personality.
    (25:65) who entreat: "Our Lord! Ward off from us the chastisement of Hell, for its chastisement is one that clings. (25:66) Verily it is a wretched abode and resting place."
    This is a prayer of humility: such a person relies, not on any good works which he may have done, but on the Grace and Mercy of Allah; and he shows a lively sense of the Day of Judgment, when every action will weigh for or against a soul. The misery which results from sin is not only grievous to live in ("an abode") but also grievous "to rest in" or "to stand in", if it be only for a short time.
    (25:67) (The true servants of the Merciful One are) those who are neither extravagant nor niggardly in their spending but keep the golden mean between the two;
    In ordinary spending this is a wise rule. But even in charity, in which we give of our best, it is not expected that we should be extravagant, i.e., that we should either do it for show, to impress other people, or do it thoughtlessly, which would be the case if we "rob Peter to pay Paul". We should certainly not be niggardly, but we should remember everyone's rights, including our own, and strike a perfectly just balance between them.

    The true servants of Allah adopt the golden mean between the two extremes in spending their money. They neither go beyond prudence and necessity in expenditure nor live in wretched circumstances in order to save and hoard money but are frugal. This was the characteristic of the followers of the Prophet (peace be upon him), which distinguished them from the well-to-do people of Arabia, who were either spend thrifts in regard to the gratification of their own lusts or niggardly in spending their money on good works.

    According to Islam extravagance is: (1) To spend even the smallest amount of money in unlawful ways. (2) To go beyond one’s own resources in expenditure even in lawful ways, or to spend money for one’s own pleasure. (3) To spend money in righteous ways not for the sake of Allah but for mere show. On the other hand, one is miserly if one does not spend money for his own needs and requirements and those of his family in accordance with his resources and position, or if one does not spend money for good works. The way taught by Islam is the golden mean between the two extremes. The Prophet (peace be upon him) has said: It is a sign of wisdom to adopt the golden mean in one's living. (Ahmad, Tabarani).

    At another place Allah commands: "O children of Adam, take your adornment at every masjid, and eat and drink, but be not excessive. Indeed, He likes not those who commit excess." [Surah Al A'raf, 7:31]

    Now this verse alone says it all about display of pomp and show. Unfortunately, many rich Muslims lack this quality and and are oft seen squandering money in casinos in the West, throwing lavish parties and involving in immoral activities, which are seen by non Muslims as a distaste and they wonder "Does Islam teach this ?" Well certainly not. In fact those who disregard this very verse of the Qur'an bring shame not only to them but Muslims in general.
    (25:68) who invoke no other deity along with Allah, nor take any life - which Allah has forbidden - save justly; who do not commit unlawful sexual intercourse - and whoso does that shall meet its penalty;
    Here three things are expressly condemned: (1) false worship, which is a crime against Allah; (2) the taking of life, which is a crime against our fellow-creatures; and (3) fornication, which is a crime against our self-respect, against ourselves. Every crime is against Allah, His creatures, and ourselves, but some may be viewed more in relation to one than to another. The prohibition against taking life is qualified: "except for just cause,": e.g., in judicial punishment for murder, or in self-preservation, which may include not only self-defence in the legal sense, but also the clearing out of pests, and the provision of meat under conditions of Halal.
    (25:72) (The true servants of the Merciful One) are those who do not bear witness to any falsehood and who, when they pass by frivolity, pass by it with dignity;
    Witness no falsehood has two significations, both implied in this passage: (1) They do not give evidence (in the court of law etc.) in regard to a false thing in order to prove it right, when in fact it is a falsehood, or at best a doubtful thing. (2) They have no intention to witness anything which is false, evil or wicked as spectators. In this sense, every sin and every indecency, every sham and counterfeit act is a falsehood. A true servant of Allah recognizes it as false and shuns it even if it is presented in the seemingly beautiful forms of art.

    The Arabic word "laghv" used in this verse implies all that is vain, useless and meaningless and it also covers falsehood. The true servants pass by in a dignified manner if they ever come across what is vain, as if it were a heap of filth. They do not stay there to enjoy the filth of moral impurity, obscenity or foul language, nor do they intentionally go anywhere to hear or see or take part in any sort of filth.
    (25:73) who, when they are reminded of the revelations of their Lord, do not fall at them deaf and blind;
    The true servants of Allah do not behave like the blind and the deaf towards the revelations of Allah, when they are recited to them for their admonition. They do not turn a deaf ear to their teachings and message and do not deliberately close their eyes to the signs that they are asked to observe, but are deeply moved by them. They follow and practice what they are enjoined and retrain from what is forbidden.
    (25:74) who are prone to pray: "Our Lord! Grant us that our spouses and our offspring be a joy to our eyes, and do make us the leaders of the God-fearing."
    The most distinctive characteristic of the true servants is their eagerness for prayer to Allah. In (verse 65) their prayer for their own salvation and in (verse 74 ) their prayer for their wives and children have been cited: Our Lord, make our wives and children true believers so that they should practice righteousness and become a source of comfort for us. Their prayer shows that the true servants of Allah are more concerned about the salvation of their beloved ones in the Hereafter than the enjoyment of the world.

    It should be noted that this characteristic has been cited here to show that the true servants had sincerely believed in the message. That is why they were so concerned about the faith of their beloved ones. It should also be kept in mind that many of the near and dear ones of the believers had not as yet embraced Islam. If a husband had embraced Islam, the wife was still an unbeliever, and if a youth had accepted Islam, his parents and brothers and sisters were still involved in disbelief, and vice versa. Therefore, the true servants wept and prayed for them, whenever the picture of their horrible state in Hell came before their eyes.

    A true Muslim should there excel in piety, righteousness and good works; and become the leader(s) of the pious people so that he may lead others in the propagation of virtue and piety in the world. Incidentally, this characteristic of the true servants was in great contrast to that of the disbelievers, who strove in competition and rivalry with one another for superiority in worldly power and wealth. But it is a pity that some people in our time have misinterpreted this verse as containing sanction for seeking candidature for political leadership. According to them, the verse means: Our Lord, make us rulers over the pious people.

    and for those who bear the above stated traits have a big reward i-waiting:
    (25:75) They are the ones who will be rewarded for their patience: lofty palaces, will be granted to them, and they will be received with greeting and salutation.(25:76) Therein they shall abide for ever: how good an abode, and how good a resting-place!(25:77) Say to them (O Muhammad): "My Lord would not care for you were it not for your prayer. But now that you have given the lie to (the Message of Allah), an inextricable punishment shall soon come upon you."
    Let us recapitulate the virtues of the true servants of Allah: (1) they are humble and forbearing to those below them in spiritual worth; (2) they are constantly, by adoration, in touch with Allah; (3) they always remember the Judgment in the Hereafter; (4) they are moderate in all things; (5) they avoid treason to Allah, to their fellow-creatures, and to themselves; (6) they give a wide berth not only to falsehood but to futility; (7) they pay attention, both in mind and manner, to the Signs of their Lord; (8) their ambition is to bring up their families in righteousness and to lead in all good. A fine code of individual and social ethics, a ladder of spiritual development, open to all.

    And let me assure you majority of Muslims have these traits. It is a pity that those who hate Islam only target the deviators and radicals and call Islam with bad names.

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