Gratefulness is one the best quality trait of a person. A man who does not show gratitude to others in return of their favours can never be happy for they do not have the heart to say a few words of gratitude and appreciate favours others have extended to them. And how ungrateful a person would be when he fails to thank one's Creator for the countless blessings He bestows upon the man, even without being asked for.
Today, in this post we share the 90th verse of Sürah 12. Yusuf (Joseph) in which Prophet Yusuf (عَلَيْهِ ٱلسَّلَامُ) shows his gratitude to Allah for having united him with his family after a long spell of time. Let us first read the verse and then see its explanation by eminent scholars for better understanding.
قَالُوۡۤا ءَاِنَّكَ لَاَنۡتَ يُوۡسُفُؕ قَالَ اَنَا يُوۡسُفُ وَهٰذَاۤ اَخِىۡ قَدۡ مَنَّ اللّٰهُ عَلَيۡنَاؕ اِنَّهٗ مَنۡ يَّتَّقِ وَيَصۡبِرۡ فَاِنَّ اللّٰهَ لَا يُضِيۡعُ اَجۡرَ الۡمُحۡسِنِيۡنَ
(12:90) They exclaimed: "Are you indeed Joseph?" He said: "Yes, I am Joseph and this is my brother. Allah has surely been gracious to us. Indeed whoever fears Allah and remains patient, Allah does not allow the reward of such people to go to waste."
This verse is one of the most emotional and morally powerful moments in the story of Prophet Yusuf in Qur'an, found in Surah Yusuf. It marks the moment when Yusuf finally reveals his identity to the brothers who once betrayed him.
Context of the Verse
This verse culminates an event that happened long ago when brothers of Prophet Yusuf in sheer envy of him threw him in a dead well because their father Prophet Yaqub loved him deeply. And lied to their father saying a wolf had eaten him. But Allah has different plans for those he loves and saved him by a passing by caravan who took him to Egypt and sold as slave. There he rose to higher ranks due to his intelligence, wisdom and character.
Years later, famine forced his brothers to travel to Egypt seeking grain. They stood before Yusuf—now a powerful minister—but did not recognize him. After several encounters, Yusuf finally revealed himself with the words of this verse. Their shocked reaction: “Are you indeed Joseph?” And Yusuf calmly replied that he was indeed Yusuf and pointed to his brother Binyamin, who was earlier detained by him when t=his brothers visited him for the first time.
Key Message of the Verse
Yusuf summarizes his entire life experience in one profound principle: “Whoever fears Allah (taqwa), is grateful and remains patient (sabr), Allah does not waste their reward.”
Two three qualities are highlighted:
- Taqwa (Fear / Consciousness of Allah) Yusuf maintained moral integrity even in difficult situations. His fear for Allah made him steadfast even when he was tempted by the minister’s wife, and refused no matter the consequences (for which he suffered later and was put in the prison).
- Sabr (Patience) Prophet Yusuf remained patient despite betrayal by his brothers, during slavery, false accusation on his character and years of imprisonment. As a reward, despite these hardships, Allah eventually raised his status and reunited him with his family. Hardships do not mean abandonment by Allah. Sometimes these are part of a long process leading to honor and wisdom.
- Gratitude (Shukr) Despite the difficulties through which Prophet Yusuf waded through to make his place, he was always grateful to Allah and never for once showed his ungratefulness to his Creator for the difficult times he had to undergo for most part of his youth. In fact gratitude is Acknowledgment of Allah's Favor. Prophet Yusuf thus states, "Allah has certainly favored us," acknowledging that his rise from the well and prison to a position of power was entirely by divine grace.
How to be Grateful
In Islam, gratitude (shukr) means recognizing the blessings of Allah, appreciating them in the heart, acknowledging them with the tongue, and using them in a way that pleases Allah. The Qur'an repeatedly teaches that gratitude is one of the highest qualities of true believers. Allah says: “If you are grateful, I will surely increase you (in blessings).” It was extreme gratefulness of Prophet Yusuf despite his difficulties that Allah bestowed upon him blessings.
- The Three Dimensions of Gratitude Muslim scholars explain that gratitude has three levels:
- Gratitude of the Heart (Recognition)
- This means internally acknowledging that all blessings come from Allah. Allah says: “Whatever blessing you have is from Allah.” (16:53)
- A grateful heart realizes that health. family, faith, knowledge and opportunities are not purely personal achievements but gifts from Allah.
- That is when someone succeeds in their career or studies, instead of arrogance they think: “This is Allah’s favor upon me.”
- Gratitude of the Tongue (Acknowledgment) This is verbally thanking Allah by praising Him.
- The best expression of gratitude is saying Alhamdulillah ٱلْحَمْدُ لِلَّٰهِ (All praise belongs to Allah).
- The Prophet ﷺ taught that remembering Allah frequently makes a person grateful. The life of Prophet Muhammad beautifully demonstrates this. Even though his past and future sins were forgiven, he would pray long night prayers. When asked why, he replied: “Should I not be a grateful servant?” This shows gratitude is expressed through worship and remembrance.
- Gratitude through Actions (Using Blessings Correctly) True gratitude means using Allah’s gifts in ways that please Him.
- For example: (1) If Allah gives wealth, help the poor (2) If Allah gives knowledge, teach others and (3) If Allah gives health, worship and do good deeds.
- Prophet Dawud (عَلَيْهِ ٱلسَّلَامُ) and his family were told in the Qur'an: “Work, O family of Dawud, in gratitude.” (34:13) This means gratitude must be visible in actions.
- How to Become a Grateful Person (Practical Steps)
- Reflect on Blessings Daily
- Often people focus on what they lack rather than what they have.
- Think about blessings which we generally ignore like the eyesight, ability to walk, hear and speak and the family. When a person reflects deeply, gratitude naturally develops.
- Compare Downward, Not Upward The Prophet ﷺ advised people to look at those less fortunate, not those above them in worldly matters. This prevents jealousy and increases gratitude.
- Remember Difficulties Others Face While enjoying the comforts of life, one should never overlook the plight of people suffering from illness, poverty, or loss reminds us how many blessings we overlook. A healthy person who reflects on this becomes grateful for simple things like breathing and walking.
- Practice Saying “Alhamdulillah ٱلْحَمْدُ لِلَّٰهِ” with Meaning Instead of saying it mechanically, say it consciously after eating, after completing work, after recovering from illness and after success. Each time remind yourself Who gave this blessing.
- Use Blessings to Benefit Others The quickest way to feel gratitude is helping others like donating charity, helping someone learn, supporting family members. This transforms blessings into acts of worship.
- The Benefits of Gratitude The Qur'an teaches that gratitude brings powerful results:
- More Blessings: Allah promises increase: “If you are grateful, I will increase you.” (14:7). This increase may come as more provision, inner peace and barakah (blessing).
- Inner Peace: Grateful people experience less m envy, anxiety, and dissatisfaction. Their focus shifts from scarcity to abundance.
- Stronger Faith:
- Gratitude constantly reminds a believer of Allah’s mercy and presence in life.
- A Powerful Example from the Story of Yusuf. When Prophet Yusuf finally met his brothers after years of suffering, he said: “Allah has certainly been gracious to us.” (12:90). Despite betrayal, slavery, and prison, Yusuf still saw Allah’s mercy in his life. This is the highest level of gratitude—being thankful even after hardship.
- Thus Gratitude in Islam means: (1) Recognizing Allah’s blessings in the heart, praising Him with the tongue and using blessings in ways that please Him. A grateful life turns ordinary moments into acts of worship.
* Please read our earlier post: How to express one's Gratitude to Allah for more on gratitude.
The Spirit of Forgiveness
What makes this scene extraordinary is that Yusuf had complete power to punish his brothers. They had betrayed him, ruined his childhood and caused decades of grief to their father. Yet Yusuf chose forgiveness instead of revenge, which speaks of the strength of his character. Later he tells them (12:92): “No blame will there be upon you today. May Allah forgive you.”
This is one of the greatest examples of forgiveness in religious history. Ibn Kathir notes that this highlights the perfection of Yusuf's character, as he does not gloat, but rather highlights the reward of righteousness
Living Examples of Forgiveness
- The Forgiveness of Prophet Muhammad ﷺ at the Conquest of Makkah
- When the Prophet ﷺ entered Makkah with power after years of persecution, the people feared revenge. But reassured them instead with great dignity: “No blame upon you today. Go, for you are free.”
- This statement echoed the words of Yusuf. And those who had persecuted him, exiled him, fought wars against him, were forgiven completely. This is perhaps the best of forgiveness in the history of mankind.
- Nelson Mandela’s Forgiveness Another famous example in modern history is of Nelson Mandela. He spent 27 years in prison under apartheid and kept in extremely inhuman conditions. Yet, after becoming president, he did not seek revenge against his oppressors. Instead he promoted reconciliation. His patience and forgiveness prevented civil war in South Africa.
- Everyday Example A person may experience betrayal from a family member, a colleague or a business partner with natural reaction of anger and revenge. Yet applying the lesson of Yusuf means: forgiving and trusting that Allah sees the injustice, responding with patience and avoiding hatred and revenge. Over time, such people often gain inner peace, respect, and unexpected blessings.
Psychological and Spiritual Lessons
This verse teaches several deep lessons:
- Hardship can be preparation for greatness. Yusuf’s prison became the path to leadership.
- Moral character matters more than circumstances. He remained righteous even when no one was watching.
- Forgiveness is a form of strength, not weakness.
- Being grateful is the best character trait - one must always be thanking one's Lord and people around for the Divine Blessings and help extended by the people.
In summary Surah Yusuf 12:90 is the turning point where betrayal transforms into reconciliation. Yusuf attributes his success not to luck or power but to taqwa and patience, teaching that those who remain faithful to Allah through suffering will never lose their reward. And one should always be grateful to Allah for giving us the heart to be grateful for the blessings we receive even without asking for, as Allah has a far bigger heart than the otherwise miser servants of His, who overlooks the follies of man and accepts their gratitude and bestows more upon them.
May Allāh (سبحانه و تعالى) help us understand Qur'ān and follow the Sunnah of Prophet Muhammad ﷺ, which is embodiment of commandments of Allah contained in the Qur'ān. May Allah help us to be like the ones He loves and let our lives be lived helping others and not making others' lives miserable or unlivable. May all our wrong doings, whether intentional or unintentional, be forgiven before the angel of death knocks on our door.
وَمَا عَلَيۡنَاۤ اِلَّا الۡبَلٰغُ الۡمُبِيۡنُ
(36:17) and our duty is no more than to clearly convey the Message.”
That is Our duty is only to convey to you the message that Allah has entrusted us with. Then it is for you to accept it or reject it. We have not been made responsible for making you accept it forcibly, and if you do not accept it, we shall not be seized in consequence of your disbelief, you will yourselves be answerable for your actions on Day of Resurrection.
May Allah forgive me if my posts ever imply a piety far greater than I possess. I am most in need of guidance.
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