The life style of a person has a profound effect on a man's character, behaviour and interaction with people around. Despite two people with same genetics raised in the same environment can still develop very different styles which is noticeable in personal temperament, life experiences, and their attitudes towards life.
Examples of environmental / ambitions influence:
- Personal ambitions and aspirations that may define the character of a man.
- Geography and climate affect lifestyle and outlook to the life.
- Family and culture shape speech, clothing, manners, and values.
- Friends and social groups influence music taste, slang, fashion, and behavior.
- Online environments and media trends shape aesthetics and communication styles.
- Schools, workplaces, and economic conditions influence professional and creative styles.
With this premise in the background, let us share a Hadith attributed to Prophet Muhammad ﷺ mentions three people whose lifestyle and mental orientation can be studied to know why do they behave differently or how their aspirations may have a prefund effect on their character. This Hadith is mentioned in Sunan Abi Dawud as Hadith number 2859, given and explained herein under:
The Hadith
Narrated Abdullah ibn Abbas that The Prophet (ﷺ) said (the narrator Sufyan said: I do not know but that it [the tradition] has been transmitted from the Prophet (ﷺ):
He who lives in the desert will become rude; he who pursues the game will be negligent, and he who visits a king will be perverted (that is he who approaches the gates of the ruler for personal gains).
حَدَّثَنَا مُسَدَّدٌ، حَدَّثَنَا يَحْيَى، عَنْ سُفْيَانَ، حَدَّثَنِي أَبُو مُوسَى، عَنْ وَهْبِ بْنِ مُنَبِّهٍ، عَنِ ابْنِ عَبَّاسٍ، عَنِ النَّبِيِّ صلى الله عليه وسلم - وَقَالَ مَرَّةً سُفْيَانُ وَلاَ أَعْلَمُهُ إِلاَّ عَنِ النَّبِيِّ صلى الله عليه وسلم - وَقَالَ " مَنْ سَكَنَ الْبَادِيَةَ جَفَا وَمَنِ اتَّبَعَ الصَّيْدَ غَفَلَ وَمَنْ أَتَى السُّلْطَانَ افْتُتِنَ " .
Grade: Sahih (Al-Albani)
Explanation of the Hadith
This hadith is not condemning deserts, hunting, or rulers in themselves. Classical scholars explain that the Prophet ﷺ was warning against lifestyles that can gradually affect a person’s character and spirituality.
1. “He who lives in the desert becomes harsh”
- In the Prophet’s time, isolated desert life often meant limited social interaction, less access to knowledge, and rough living conditions. The warning is about becoming emotionally hard, uncultured, or distant from learning and community values. Choosing to live in extreme isolation, far from human civilization, centers of Islamic knowledge, and the company of righteous scholars, causes a person to lose their interpersonal refinement. They become socially detached and spiritually hardened.
- Modern relevance: Today this can apply to any kind of isolation that disconnects a person from healthy society, learning, and compassion — not just physical deserts. Someone cut off from community, education, or spiritual guidance may become insensitive or extreme in behavior or indifferent to good desires of people around him.
2. “He who pursues hunting becomes negligent”
- Hunting was a permissible activity, but obsessively chasing it for entertainment could distract a person from worship, responsibilities, and remembrance of Allah.
- Modern relevance: The principle extends to excessive hobbies, entertainment, gaming, social media, sports, or material pursuits when they consume a person’s life and make them neglect prayer, family, ethics, or purpose.
- The issue is not recreation itself — it is unhealthy obsession and heedlessness.
3. “He who visits rulers will be put into trial”
- Scholars explain this refers to the danger of becoming too attached to political power, wealth, or influence. A person may compromise truth, flatter authority, or become morally corrupted for personal gain.
- Modern relevance:
- This remains highly relevant in politics, corporate power, celebrity culture, and influence networks. People close to power can face pressure to stay silent about injustice or sacrifice integrity for status and benefits.
- At the same time, Islam does not forbid advising leaders or working in government with honesty and justice. Many righteous scholars and companions interacted with rulers while maintaining integrity.
Core Message of the Hadith
The hadith teaches believers to protect:
- Good character,
- Spiritual awareness,
- Independence of conscience,
- and balance in worldly activities.
To summarize the Hadith one sentence, Prophet Muhammad ﷺ has warned that environments and habits slowly shape the heart. It serves as a profound moral and spiritual warning about three different lifestyles, and how each can negatively affect a person's faith and character.
There have been many Warning and Cautions by Prophet Muhammad ﷺ which we have already shared - this one adds to the list so that believers are cautioned not to indulge in activities or live in an environment which makes the stubborn, indifferent to needs of others while at the same time involving in worldly life and entertainment to an extent that one fails in carrying out one's religious obligations like As Salat (daily five prayers), reading Al Qur'an etc.
May Allāh (سبحانه و تعالى) help us understand Qur'ān and follow the Sunnah of Prophet Muhammad ﷺ, which is embodiment of commandments of Allah contained in the Qur'ān. May Allah help us to be like the ones He loves and let our lives be lived helping others and not making others' lives miserable or unlivable. May all our wrong doings, whether intentional or unintentional, be forgiven before the angel of death knocks on our door.
وَمَا عَلَيۡنَاۤ اِلَّا الۡبَلٰغُ الۡمُبِيۡنُ
(36:17) and our duty is no more than to clearly convey the Message.”
That is Our duty is only to convey to you the message that Allah has entrusted us with. Then it is for you to accept it or reject it. We have not been made responsible for making you accept it forcibly, and if you do not accept it, we shall not be seized in consequence of your disbelief, you will yourselves be answerable for your actions on Day of Resurrection.
May Allah forgive me if my posts ever imply a piety far greater than I possess. I am most in need of guidance.
Reading the Qur'ān should be a daily obligation of a Muslim - Reading it with translation will make it meaningful. But reading its Exegesis / Tafsir will make you understand it fully. It will also help the Muslims to have grasp over social issues and their answers discussed in the Qur'an and other matter related to inter faith so that they are able to discuss issues with non-Muslims with authority based on refences from Qur'an.
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