Who were Hārūt and Mārūt - Why are they mentioned in the Qur’an?

The major portion of Al Qur'an is based on Divine commands, guidance and cautions. Yet there are parables, imageries, metaphors and anecdotes to make readers of Qur'an understand a concept or a passage which some may not otherwise understand easily. We have already shared many such mentions with explanations for the interest and understanding, based on interpretation by some of the eminent scholars of Islam and exegetes of Al Qur'an.

Today, we share the mention of Hārūt and Mārūt in Al Qur'an, given is verse 102 of Surah 2. Al Baqarah (The Cow).  Hārūt and Mārūt were in fact two angels sent to people of Babylon during the the time of Prophet Solomon (Sulaymān عليه السلام ), entrusted with a divine test involving knowledge of sorcery (siḥr). They did not invite people to disbelief; rather, they clearly warned anyone who approached them: “We are only a trial, so do not disbelieve.” Yet some people still chose to learn and misuse harmful practices, even causing separation between husband and wife. The passage therefore teaches that knowledge can become a test, that harmful knowledge should not be pursued or misused, and that no magic or unseen force can harm anyone independently of Allah’s permission.

The verse (in part)

“And they followed [instead] what the devils had recited during the reign of Solomon. It was not Solomon who disbelieved, but the devils disbelieved, teaching people magic and that which was revealed to the two angels at Babylon, Hārūt and Mārūt. But they [i.e., the two angels] do not teach anyone unless they say, "We are a trial, so do not disbelieve [by practicing magic]." And [yet] they learn from them that by which they cause separation between a man and his wife. But they do not harm anyone through it except by permission of Allāh. And they [i.e., the people] learn what harms them and does not benefit them. But they [i.e., the Children of Israel] certainly knew that whoever purchased it [i.e., magic] would not have in the Hereafter any share. And wretched is that for which they sold themselves, if they only knew.”

Who were Hārūt and Mārūt?

Let us now understand who were these two angels and why were they sent. According to the straightforward reading adopted by many classical mufassirūn, Hārūt and Mārūt were two angels sent to Babylon as a test for people. Their presence was not an invitation to practice magic. Quite the opposite: whenever someone approached them, they first gave an explicit warning:

إِنَّمَا نَحْنُ فِتْنَةٌ فَلَا تَكْفُرْ “We are only a trial, so do not disbelieve.”

Scholarly Interpretation

1. Ibn Kathīr: they were a test, and people were warned

Ibn Kathīr records several interpretations transmitted from earlier authorities. The most commonly understood reading is that Hārūt and Mārūt were two angels in Babylon, and whoever came to them was first explicitly warned:

إِنَّمَا نَحْنُ فِتْنَةٌ فَلَا تَكْفُرْ “We are only a trial, so do not disbelieve.”

Thus, their role was connected with a divinely permitted fitnah — a test. The sin did not lie in the angels encouraging evil; rather, people knowingly chose to misuse what they encountered despite the warning. Ibn Kathīr also records alternative early interpretations, including reports attributed to al-Ṭabarī and others concerning the grammatical meaning of the verse, showing that the details were debated among early exegetes.

Importantly, the colourful later narrative claiming that the two angels descended, became infatuated with a woman, drank wine, committed murder and were punished should not be treated as part of the Qur’anic account itself. Much of that material comes through disputed reports and Isrā’īliyyāt traditions rather than a clear Qur’anic statement.

2. Al-Ṭabarī: a noteworthy alternative interpretation

Al-Ṭabarī discusses a less common interpretation according to which the verse need not mean that Allah actually sent magic down through two angels. In one line of interpretation preserved in his tafsīr, the reference could be connected with false claims circulating among the Jews about angels and magic. He nevertheless reports the interpretation that Hārūt and Mārūt were angels as well. Ibn Kathīr cites this disagreement and does not hide the exegetical complexity.

This tells us something important: Muslim scholarship distinguished the definite message of the verse from speculative details surrounding the story.

3. Maʿārif al-Qur’an / Ashraf ʿAlī Thanawī: they exposed magic so people could distinguish it from miracles

This interpretation gives a particularly interesting explanation.

According to Maʿārif al-Qur’an, drawing upon Mawlānā Ashraf ʿAlī Thanawī, magic had become widespread in Babylon. People were becoming so impressed by extraordinary magical phenomena that they were beginning to confuse sorcery with prophetic miracles.

• Allah therefore sent Hārūt and Mārūt so that people could understand what magic really was and thereby distinguish: (1) magic from miracle, (2) magicians from prophets, (3) deception from divine signs.
• Before explaining anything, however, they warned the person that this knowledge itself constituted a test. The purpose was therefore protective and educational, not an endorsement of sorcery.

Maʿārif al-Qur’an gives an illuminating analogy: a scholar may explain false doctrines in detail so that students can recognize and refute them. If a student subsequently embraces those doctrines, that does not make the teacher responsible. Similarly, Hārūt and Mārūt warned people beforehand, while some later misused the knowledge.

4. Al-Qurṭubī and other classical scholars: caution about the details

Classical tafsīr literature records more than one grammatical and theological interpretation of this passage. Al-Qurṭubī discusses the view that what was “sent down” should not necessarily be understood as Allah sending magic for people to practise.

The important point remains unchanged: Allah did not command people to become sorcerers. Whatever knowledge was involved, the angels explicitly warned: “We are only a trial, so do not disbelieve.”

That single sentence prevents us from interpreting their mission as promoting magic.

5. The interpretation of many later scholars: knowledge can itself be a moral examination

Later commentators often emphasize the ethical dimension. The significant Qur’anic expression is not merely that people “learned,” but: “They learned what harmed them and did not benefit them.”

This transforms the story into a profound discussion of beneficial versus harmful knowledge. Knowledge is therefore not automatically virtuous merely because it is knowledge. A person may know how to manipulate people, destroy relationships, deceive society, make weapons, steal information or exploit vulnerabilities. 

The moral question is: What will you do with what you know?

This is one reason Hārūt and Mārūt remain extraordinarily relevant.

6.    Where the scholars substantially agree

Despite their disagreements over historical details, their interpretations converge on several fundamentals:

• Sulaymān عليه السلام was innocent of magic. The Qur’an expressly declares: “Sulaymān did not disbelieve.”
• Magic is associated with the devils and serious spiritual danger.
• Hārūt and Mārūt warned people rather than enticing them.
• Their presence constituted a fitnah — a test.
• Human beings remained responsible for their own choices.
• Some people deliberately pursued knowledge that harmed rather than benefited them.
• No occult power operates independently of Allah.

The interpretation most important for us today The most powerful part of the passage may actually be the contrast between two expressions:

إِنَّمَا نَحْنُ فِتْنَةٌ  “We are only a test.” - and  وَيَتَعَلَّمُونَ مَا يَضُرُّهُمْ وَلَا يَنفَعُهُمْ “They learned what harmed them and did not benefit them.”

Put together, they establish an extraordinary Qur’anic principle: The ability to acquire knowledge does not automatically give us the moral right to use it.

That applies far beyond ancient Babylon. Modern humanity possesses unprecedented knowledge—AI, biotechnology, surveillance, psychological manipulation, weapons and mass communication. The Qur’anic question remains essentially the same: Will knowledge be used to benefit creation, or will human beings knowingly choose what harms them? In that sense, Hārūt and Mārūt are not merely mysterious figures from antiquity. Their mention becomes a warning for every generation about knowledge, temptation, responsibility and the misuse of power.

Why are they mentioned in the Qur’an?

Their story is very much a lesson for later generations. The Qur’an is not merely recording an unusual event in Babylon. It is demonstrating a permanent principle: knowledge itself can become a test.Hārūt and Mārūt warned people before teaching them. This means that the individual was confronted with a moral choice: You now know that this knowledge can lead you away from Allah—will you still pursue it?

The Qur’an then gives a disturbing example: “…they learned from them that by which they caused separation between a man and his wife…”

Notice the kind of harm highlighted. It is not merely spectacular magic. It is the destruction of human relationships, especially marriage. The Qur’an therefore exposes one of the ugliest uses of knowledge: using it not to heal, reconcile or benefit people, but to manipulate, divide and destroy them.

The deeper lesson: Not everything we can learn should be learned or used. This principle becomes even more relevant in later generations. Human beings continually acquire greater powers: science, technology, psychology, surveillance, artificial intelligence, genetic engineering, weapons, media manipulation and sophisticated methods of influencing other people. 

The Qur’anic lesson of Hārūt and Mārūt asks a timeless question: Just because something can be known or done, does that mean it should be done? The people mentioned in 2:102 possessed knowledge, but Allah says: “They learned what harmed them and did not benefit them.”

That is perhaps the central warning of the passage.

Islam therefore does not measure knowledge merely by how fascinating, mysterious or powerful it is. Knowledge is also judged by where it leads. Knowledge that brings a person closer to truth, justice and human welfare is a blessing. Knowledge deliberately used for deception, oppression, manipulation or corruption may become a fitnah—an examination of one's faith and character.

Another crucial lesson: Magic has no independent power. The verse immediately places an important theological restriction upon the subject: “…but they could not harm anyone through it except by Allah’s permission.”

This protects a believer from two opposite errors. (1) One is denying Allah's sovereignty by imagining that sorcerers, spirits, occult practitioners or unseen forces possess autonomous supernatural power. (2) The other is becoming obsessed and terrified by them.

The Qur’an teaches that nothing operates independently of Allah. A believer therefore does not live in superstitious fear of magicians, amulets, fortune-tellers or supposed occult powers.

Why was Prophet Sulaymān mentioned immediately before them?

The verse begins by correcting another misconception: “Sulaymān did not disbelieve, but the devils disbelieved, teaching people magic…” Certain people had apparently associated Sulaymān's extraordinary kingdom with sorcery. The Qur’an categorically clears him:

وَمَا كَفَرَ سُلَيْمَانُ “Sulaymān did not disbelieve.”

His extraordinary authority over wind, jinn and other aspects of creation was a miracle and gift from Allah, not magical power obtained through occult practices. So the verse sharply distinguishes between:

• Divine gift and occult manipulation;
• prophethood and sorcery;
• beneficial knowledge and harmful knowledge;
• trust in Allah and pursuit of forbidden powers.

Why does the Qur’an specifically mention husband and wife?

The Qur’an says that people learned something through which they caused:

يُفَرِّقُونَ بِهِ بَيْنَ الْمَرْءِ وَزَوْجِهِ “separation between a man and his wife.”

This is significant. The Qur’an could have chosen many examples of harm, but it points to the destruction of the closest human relationship. Several commentators therefore see the verse as demonstrating the destructive character of sorcery: instead of building society, it breaks trust, affection and families.

And yet the Qur’an immediately places a theological boundary around its power:

وَمَا هُم بِضَارِّينَ بِهِ مِنْ أَحَدٍ إِلَّا بِإِذْنِ اللَّهِ “They cannot harm anyone through it except by Allah's permission.”

Thus Islam simultaneously acknowledges the danger while denying that magic possesses independent power outside Allah's sovereignty.

What should we learn from Hārūt and Mārūt today?

Their mention teaches at least these lasting lessons:

• Life itself contains tests disguised as opportunities. Something attractive or powerful may actually be a test of obedience.
• A warning removes excuses. Hārūt and Mārūt explicitly said, “Do not disbelieve.” Those who proceeded did so knowingly.
• Knowledge carries moral responsibility. The more power knowledge gives us, the greater our accountability for how we use it.
• Do not seek knowledge whose purpose is harm. The Qur’an condemns people who deliberately learned what harmed rather than benefited them.
• Destroying relationships is a grave evil. The verse specifically mentions separating husband and wife.
• Never attribute independent supernatural power to creation. Harm occurs only within Allah's decree.
• Do not confuse miracles with magic. Sulaymān's powers came from Allah; sorcery belonged to the path of devils.

The most profound message

The story of Hārūt and Mārūt is therefore not principally a mysterious story about two angels. It is a story about human choice. Two people may encounter exactly the same knowledge. One recognizes the warning and walks away. The other says, “I know it is wrong, but I want the power it gives me.”

That is why the verse concludes with such severity:

“…they certainly knew that whoever purchased it would have no share in the Hereafter. Miserable indeed was that for which they sold themselves, if only they knew.”

The expression “sold themselves” is particularly striking. The Qur’an is telling us that sometimes the real price of forbidden power is not money—it is one's own soul and relationship with Allah.

Thus, the mention of Hārūt and Mārūt has a powerful message for every generation: seek knowledge, but never separate knowledge from morality; seek power, but never at the cost of obedience to Allah; and whenever knowledge becomes a choice between benefit and corruption, remember the warning: “We are only a trial, so do not disbelieve.”

May Allāh (سبحانه و تعالى‎) help us understand Qur'ān and follow the Sunnah of Prophet Muhammad ﷺ, which is embodiment of commandments of Allah contained in the Qur'ān. May Allah help us to be like the ones He loves and let our lives be lived helping others and not making others' lives miserable or unlivable. May all our wrong doings, whether intentional or unintentional, be forgiven before the angel of death knocks on our door. 

وَمَا عَلَيۡنَاۤ اِلَّا الۡبَلٰغُ الۡمُبِيۡنُ‏ 

(36:17) and our duty is no more than to clearly convey the Message.”

That is Our duty is only to convey to you the message that Allah has entrusted us with. Then it is for you to accept it or reject it. We have not been made responsible for making you accept it forcibly, and if you do not accept it, we shall not be seized in consequence of your disbelief, you will yourselves be answerable for your actions on Day of Resurrection.

May Allah forgive me if my posts ever imply a piety far greater than I possess. I am most in need of guidance.

Reading the Qur'ān should be a daily obligation of a Muslim - Reading it with translation will make it meaningful. But reading its Exegesis / Tafsir will make you understand it fully. It will also help the Muslims to have grasp over social issues and their answers discussed in the Qur'an and other matter related to inter faith so that they are able to discuss issues with non-Muslims with authority based on refences from Qur'an.

Note: When we mention God in our posts, we mean One True God, we call Allah in Islam, with no associates. Allah is the Sole Creator of all things, and that Allah is all-powerful and all-knowing. Allah has no offspring, no race, no gender, no body, and is unaffected by the characteristics of human life.

You may refer to more Selected Verses from Surah 2 Al Baqarah (The Cow)  already published

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• Selected Verses from the Qur'an. 

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What do we learn from the parable of spider's web "The frailest of houses" mentioned in Al Qur'an

The Qur’an uses parables, imagery and metaphors because many spiritual realities—faith, hypocrisy, guidance, worldly attachment, resurrection, reliance on Allah—are invisible or abstract. Parables let us to distinguish attitudes of the heart. A parable often does several things at once. It makes the unseen understandable: false reliance becomes the fragile spider’s house (29:41). We have already shared a number of parables, metaphors and imageries in our earlier posts. Today we will try expand the parable of spider's web which appears in Surah Al-ʿAnkabūt 29:41. In fact the surah itself is named Al Ankabut - the spider's house: 

The Verse

مَثَلُ ٱلَّذِينَ ٱتَّخَذُواْ مِن دُونِ ٱللَّهِ أَوۡلِيَآءَ كَمَثَلِ ٱلۡعَنكَبُوتِ ٱتَّخَذَتۡ بَيۡتٗاۖ وَإِنَّ أَوۡهَنَ ٱلۡبُيُوتِ لَبَيۡتُ ٱلۡعَنكَبُوتِۚ لَوۡ كَانُواْ يَعۡلَمُونَ

“The parable of those who take protectors besides Allah is that of the spider which makes a house; and indeed, the weakest of houses is the spider’s house—if only they knew.”

The verse is not really about spiders as such. The spider’s house is being used as a symbol of false security: something may look intricate, carefully constructed and sufficient, yet when real danger comes, it cannot provide true protection.

Why is the spider’s house such a powerful parable?

The Arabic word used is بَيْت — bayt, “house” or “dwelling.” The Qur’an does not say that spider silk itself is the weakest material. In fact, modern materials research shows that some spider silks have remarkable tensile strength and toughness.

The point is therefore better understood as the weakness of the house as a refuge. However beautifully constructed, a spider’s web offers little protection from powerful external forces. Classical tafsir similarly explains that it cannot truly shelter its occupant in the way a strong dwelling does.

That produces an extraordinary contrast:

Intricate — yet fragile.

Impressive — yet insecure.

Useful for some purposes — yet useless as ultimate protection.

And this is exactly what the Qur’an says about whatever people make into an ultimate protector instead of Allah.

The context of the verse makes the parable even stronger

Immediately before 29:41, the Qur’an recalls powerful peoples and individuals—among them ʿĀd, Thamūd, Qarun, Pharaoh and Hāmān—who possessed wealth, political power, buildings, armies or worldly prestige, yet none of those things could protect them when Allah’s judgment came. Verse 40 concludes that each was seized because of wrongdoing. Then comes the spider parable.

So the sequence is deliberate: Powerful civilizations based on apparent security ultimately collapse just like the spider’s house.

Eminent scholar Maududi makes this connection especially strongly. He says that these earlier peoples trusted deities, patrons and imagined protectors to rescue them, but when destruction arrived, all such expectations collapsed. He describes their system of dependence as essentially a “toy-house of expectations”, comparable to a cobweb that cannot survive confrontation with Allah’s decree. That is perhaps the key to the entire parable.

Scholarly Interpretation of the Parable

1.    Ibn Kathir explains that those who worship or rely upon beings besides Allah resemble someone holding onto a spider’s web expecting protection. The web provides no real support when genuine danger arrives. By contrast, the believer whose heart relies upon Allah has grasped a firm and trustworthy support.

2.    Maududi broadens the image considerably. The false “protectors” are not merely idols. The historic nations thought certain beings had power over their fortunes and could rescue them from adversity. History proved those assumptions false. Maududi therefore sees the spider’s house as the entire structure of expectations built upon powers other than Allah.

3.    Yusuf Ali notices something subtle: the spider’s web can be astonishingly sophisticated and effective for its limited purpose—catching prey and transmitting vibrations—yet it remains flimsy as a real dwelling. He sees in this a comparison with worldly resources that may appear ingenious, beautiful and powerful but become insignificant when treated as substitutes for the ultimate Reality of Allah.

The common conclusion is therefore not that worldly means are useless. Rather, worldly means become spiritually dangerous when we mistake them for the ultimate source of security.

What are the “spider webs” of our own age?

This is where 29:41 becomes very contemporary. For the original audience, the most obvious application was shirk—taking deities and spiritual protectors besides Allah. That remains the primary meaning.

But the underlying principle applies much more widely. A person may construct his security around: wealth, political influence, powerful friends, professional status, family connections, technology, military strength, fame, physical health, or even his own intelligence.

Although, none of these is inherently wrong. Islam encourages lawful wealth, knowledge, planning and strength. The problem begins when the heart quietly says: “Because I possess this, nothing can happen to me.” At that moment a legitimate means has begun to become a spider’s house.

• Money disappears.
• Governments fall.
• Relationships change.
• Health collapses.
• Businesses fail.
• Technology breaks.
• Powerful people die.

The Qur’an therefore does not necessarily tell us to abandon worldly means. It tells us: Do not confuse a means with the One who controls the means.

There is another striking feature: the web can trap others. A spider’s web not only looks like a shelter; it can also become a trap. Yusuf Ali draws attention to its hunting function: an insect that enters may become entangled while the spider senses the vibrations and approaches its prey.

As a spiritual reflection—not necessarily the primary classical meaning—this gives the parable another dimension. 

• False securities often work exactly like this. A person thinks: “My wealth will protect me.” 
• Then his entire life becomes devoted to acquiring wealth.  “My position gives me security.” 
• Then he becomes terrified of losing his position. “This powerful person will protect me.”
• Then he becomes dependent upon that person. 
• However, The very thing he thought would protect him can eventually entangle him.

This beautifully fits the Qur’anic psychology of attachment.

Does modern science prove a “miracle” here?

It is sometimes claimed that the Qur’an called the spider’s home weak because of particular details of spider mating, cannibalism or family behaviour. Some spider species certainly display unusual reproductive behaviours, but spider biology is extremely diverse. Such claims should therefore not be presented as the established meaning of the verse.

The classical commentators understood the verse perfectly well centuries before modern zoology: the comparison concerns the unreliability of the spider’s dwelling as protection, just as false objects of reliance cannot protect those who depend upon them.

Interestingly, science actually strengthens the need for precision: spider silk itself can be extraordinarily strong relative to its mass. So the Qur’an’s wording is significant:

• It does not say, “The weakest thread is the spider’s thread.”
• It says, “The weakest of houses is the spider’s house.”

That distinction matters greatly.

Why does Allah use a parable rather than simply saying “do not rely on others”?

Because an image remains in the mind. You can explain theological dependence abstractly: “Anything besides Allah possesses only limited power.”

But then Allah gives you a picture: A spider carefully builds an elaborate structure, settles inside it and seems secure—yet a small disturbance can destroy the whole thing. Suddenly the theological argument becomes visible.

That is why the very next verse about Qur’anic parables says: “These are the examples We set forth for mankind, but none truly understand them except those who possess knowledge.” — 29:43

The Qur’an wants us to go behind the picture to the principle. The deepest lesson of 29:41 The verse is ultimately about tawakkul—where the heart places its final reliance.

Islam does not teach: Do nothing and rely upon Allah. It teaches: Use every lawful means—but know that the means possesses no independent power apart from Allah.

That is:

• You can take medicine, but healing ultimately belongs to Allah, 
• You can earn money, but rizq ultimately belongs to Allah. 
• You can seek help from people, but people remain limited servants of Allah.
• You can lock your house, but the lock is not your ultimate Protector.

This is the difference between using a means and worshipping the means with the heart.

The spider parable can therefore be reduced to one profound warning: Do not build your ultimate security upon something that is itself dependent, temporary and powerless before Allah.

And there is a beautiful contrast elsewhere in the Qur’an. While 29:41 describes false reliance as the fragile house of a spider, Qur’an 2:256 describes faith in Allah as grasping: “the firmest handhold which will never break.”

So spiritually there are two houses before us:

• The spider’s house: impressive perhaps, but ultimately fragile.
• Reliance upon Allah: invisible perhaps, but ultimately unbreakable.

That contrast is really the heart of Surah Al-ʿAnkabūt: life will test us, and those tests eventually reveal whether what we trusted was a real foundation—or only a beautifully constructed web.

May Allāh (سبحانه و تعالى‎) help us understand Qur'ān and follow the Sunnah of Prophet Muhammad ﷺ, which is embodiment of commandments of Allah contained in the Qur'ān. May Allah help us to be like the ones He loves and let our lives be lived helping others and not making others' lives miserable or unlivable. May all our wrong doings, whether intentional or unintentional, be forgiven before the angel of death knocks on our door. 

وَمَا عَلَيۡنَاۤ اِلَّا الۡبَلٰغُ الۡمُبِيۡنُ‏ 

(36:17) and our duty is no more than to clearly convey the Message.”

That is Our duty is only to convey to you the message that Allah has entrusted us with. Then it is for you to accept it or reject it. We have not been made responsible for making you accept it forcibly, and if you do not accept it, we shall not be seized in consequence of your disbelief, you will yourselves be answerable for your actions on Day of Resurrection.

May Allah forgive me if my posts ever imply a piety far greater than I possess. I am most in need of guidance.

Reading the Qur'ān should be a daily obligation of a Muslim - Reading it with translation will make it meaningful. But reading its Exegesis / Tafsir will make you understand it fully. It will also help the Muslims to have grasp over social issues and their answers discussed in the Qur'an and other matter related to inter faith so that they are able to discuss issues with non-Muslims with authority based on refences from Qur'an.

Note: When we mention God in our posts, we mean One True God, we call Allah in Islam, with no associates. Allah is the Sole Creator of all things, and that Allah is all-powerful and all-knowing. Allah has no offspring, no race, no gender, no body, and is unaffected by the characteristics of human life.

You may refer to more Selected Verses from Sürah 29. Al-‘Ankabūt "العنكبوت" (The Spider) already published

You may also refer to our exclusive reference pages: 

• Selected verses from selected Surahs of Al-Qurʾān for compiled verses from other surahs.
• Selected Verses from Al Qur'an about a Specific Subject (Reference Page) to know more about what Qur'an says about specific subjects
• You may also refer to our Reference Pages  for knowing more about Islam and Qur'ān.

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An effort has been made to gather explanation / exegesis of the surahs and selected verses of Al-Qurʾān from authentic sources and then present a least possible condensed explanation of the surah. In that the exegesis of the chapters of the Quran is mainly based on the "Tafhim al-Qur'an - The Meaning of the Qur'an" by one of the most enlightened scholars of the Muslim World Sayyid Abul Ala Maududi.  

In addition, other sources which have been explored and views of other scholars have been incorporated while explaining meaning of a verse. Those desirous of detailed explanations and tafsir (exegesis), may refer to these sites. For expansion of meaning and themes / contextual background help from ChatGPT is also taken.

Disclaimer: The material for this post has been collected from the references given above. If anyone differs with the material contained in this post, one may consult the references and their authors.  If someone has more material about the subject, he/she is most welcome to share in the comments box to make the post all encompassing.

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A striking verse from Al Qur'an that links faith with observation

All of us travelers in some degree - yet a few of us observe what we see while passing through places, ruins, valleys or rivers. Those who observe, also reflect on the creations of the Creator and wonder over the why of the creations. In fact pondering and reflecting over creations broadens our vision to appreciate and ponder of the beauty of even a snail crawling over a leaf. 

While traveling, we should learn to see creation as signs (āyāt), not merely scenery. The Qur’an urges us to “travel through the earth and observe” (29:20). Mountains can remind us of Allah’s power, changing landscapes of His creativity, ruins of past civilizations of the temporary nature of human greatness, and plants, animals, seas, and skies of the extraordinary order sustaining life. Travel therefore becomes an act of reflection when we move beyond taking photographs to asking: Who created this? What does it teach me about Allah? What happened to those who lived here before me? And how should this knowledge change the way I live? In this way, the eyes travel through the earth while the heart travels toward its Creator.

This is the theme of Surah Al-ʿAnkabūt 29:20 which we shall expand and try to dig deeper into the wisdom behind this post to enlighten our vision:

The Verse

قُلْ سِيرُوا فِي الْأَرْضِ فَانظُرُوا كَيْفَ بَدَأَ الْخَلْقَ ثُمَّ اللَّهُ يُنشِئُ النَّشْأَةَ الْآخِرَةَ ۚ إِنَّ اللَّهَ عَلَىٰ كُلِّ شَيْءٍ قَدِيرٌ

“Say, ‘Travel throughout the land and observe how He originated creation. Then Allah will bring about the later creation. Surely Allah has power over everything.’” — 29:20

This is a remarkable Qur’anic verse because Allah does not merely say “believe that I created”; He says, in effect, go, look, observe and think.

The context of 29:20

The immediate subject of verses 29:19–23 is resurrection. The people being addressed could acknowledge Allah as Creator, yet some regarded resurrection after death as impossible. The Qur’an answers: if Allah brought creation into existence the first time, why should recreating human beings be considered impossible? Maʿārif al-Qur’an explicitly explains the passage in this way: the first creation is presented as evidence for the possibility of the second creation.

That is why Verse 19 first asks: “Have they not seen how Allah originates creation and then repeats it? Indeed, that is easy for Allah.” — 29:19

And then verse 20 takes the argument further: Do not merely hear the argument — go out into the world and examine the evidence yourselves.

So its sequence is: Creation before our eyes → Creator → His power → resurrection → accountability.

This is why the second half of 29:20 immediately says: “Then Allah will bring about the later creation.”

The principal subject is therefore not tourism, geology or biology by themselves. Rather observation of nature is being used to awaken certainty about Allah and the Hereafter.

Why does Allah say “Travel through the earth”?

There are two important commands:

• سِيرُوا — sīrū: Travel, move about, journey.
• فَانظُرُوا — fa-nẓurū: Then look, observe, contemplate.

The second command is crucial. A person can travel thousands of kilometres and learn almost nothing spiritually. 

The Qur’an asks for travel with an observing mind and asks to look at:

• mountains and valleys,
• oceans and rivers,
• deserts and forests,
• animals and plants,
• human beings,
• civilizations and their ruins,
• birth, growth, decay and death,
• and the extraordinary order underlying creation

Ibn Kathir specifically mentions contemplation of the heavens, stars and planets, as well as earth's plains, mountains, valleys, deserts, trees, rivers, fruits and oceans. For him, these visible realities point toward both a Creator and His ability to resurrect creation.

So 29:20 is teaching something profound: The believer should not pass through Allah's creation without reading its signs.

Scholarly interpretation of  the verse

1. Ibn Kathir: creation is evidence for resurrection Ibn Kathir's interpretation is straightforward.

Human beings once did not exist; Allah brought them into existence. Therefore, the One who created them initially can create them again. He then says people should contemplate the visible signs throughout the horizons—the heavens, planets, earth, mountains, rivers, vegetation and oceans.

His reasoning is essentially: If first creation is before you, why doubt the second creation?

For Ibn Kathir, therefore, 29:20 teaches both: (1) Tawḥīd: creation points toward the Creator, and (2) Ākhirah: the Creator who originated life can restore it after death.

2. Maududi: observe what Allah is already doing Maududi focuses especially on the logical argument. 

He explains that people are already witnessing God's creative power. Once this power is acknowledged, re-creation cannot rationally be regarded as beyond Allah's ability.

The argument can be simplified: (1) First creation exists. (2) First creation required divine power. (3) The same divine power remains. (4) Therefore resurrection cannot be impossible for Allah.

This is characteristic of the Qur’anic method: it takes something observable and uses it to make us think about something presently unseen.

3. Yusuf Ali: travel both literally and intellectually

Yusuf Ali gives this verse a particularly broad and beautiful interpretation. He understands travelling through the earth both literally and, in a broader sense, intellectually.

He draws attention to the wonders encountered across the world—mountains, rivers, geological formations and other natural marvels—and then moves inward to the constitution of matter, energy, animal instinct and human capacities. His central thought is that from what humanity can observe, we may reason toward realities we cannot yet observe directly.

That is an important insight into 29:20: Observation should lead beyond observation.

You see creation;

• you reflect upon its origin;
• you recognize power and wisdom;

And finally you recognize that resurrection is not incredible.

What is particularly remarkable about this verse?

• The Qur’an could simply have said: “Allah created everything, therefore believe.”
• Instead it says: سِيرُوا — Travel and while travelling فَانظُرُوا — Observe.

This establishes an important Qur’anic attitude toward knowledge:

• Faith need not fear observation.
• Nature is not an enemy of revelation. In the Qur’anic worldview, nature itself contains āyāt—signs—which invite contemplation of the Creator.

The Muslim should therefore possess two books, metaphorically speaking:

• The revealed Book — the Qur’an, and
• The created “book” — the universe.

Both invite reflection upon Allah.

Is 29:20 a command to study science?

Now coming over to oft asked question that what Qur'an says about a particular thing - and is it ratified by science. It has been explained time and again that in books of theologies, science has no place - but it is science which can draw conclusions from what has been said.

Therefore, it would be going too far to say that the verse specifically commands modern disciplines such as geology, biology, paleontology or cosmology. The classical tafsirs primarily understand its immediate purpose as proving Allah's creative power and resurrection. Ibn Kathir and Maududi are particularly clear about this.

But the intellectual attitude encouraged by the verse certainly accommodates serious investigation of creation.

A Muslim scientist studying cells, DNA, embryonic development, fossils, ecosystems, mountains, oceans, stars or galaxies, can approach those subjects not merely asking: “How does this work?” - but also: “What does the existence, order and intelligibility of creation make me reflect upon?”

Science studies mechanisms and processes. The Qur’anic reflection goes further and asks questions of meaning, origin, purpose and ultimate destiny. We should therefore avoid forcing particular modern scientific theories into 29:20. Its message is broader and more enduring: Examine creation carefully; what you discover should deepen your awareness of the Creator and His power.

Why has this been stressed upon believers?

Although the verse directly challenges those denying resurrection, its method is immensely valuable for believers because faith can become habitual. 

We say Allah is the Creator. But when did we last seriously contemplate what that means?

Consider one seed becoming a tree. One fertilized human cell developing into a complex human body. A lifeless-looking landscape becoming green after rain. Billions of stars occupying an immense universe. Generations appearing, living and disappearing.

The Qur’an asks us not to become spiritually blind to familiar things. Something does not cease to be extraordinary merely because we see it every day. A sunrise becomes “ordinary” only because it happens repeatedly. Birth becomes “ordinary” because babies are born every day. Yet both remain astonishing signs when contemplated deeply.

How should we implement 29:20 today?

We can implement the verse on several levels.

• Travel with reflection
• When visiting mountains, seas, deserts, forests or historic civilizations, do more than take photographs.
• Ask: Who created this? - What does this teach me? - How temporary am I compared with what I see? - What became of the generations who lived here before me?
• Then travel becomes something close to tafakkur — reflective contemplation.
• Study creation Muslims should encourage children to study astronomy, biology, medicine, geology, archaeology and other fields of knowledge—not because every scientific discovery must be labelled a “Qur’anic miracle,” but because understanding creation can deepen appreciation of its complexity and order.
• Study history and ruined civilizations
• “Travel through the earth” also has a historical dimension throughout the Qur’an.
• Ancient civilizations remind us that they: possessed wealth, constructed cities, exercised power and thought their world would continue.
• But then then they disappeared - Their ruins silently preach the temporary nature of worldly power.
• Observe yourself
• One need not always travel thousands of kilometres.
• Our own bodies are extraordinary fields of reflection: heartbeat, consciousness, eyesight, memory, healing, ageing and reproduction.
• The “journey” into creation can therefore begin within ourselves.
• Connect every observation with the Hereafter - This is the part most easily forgotten.

Remember, 29:20 does not finish: “See how Allah originated creation.” Rather, it immediately continues: “Then Allah will bring about the later creation.” Therefore the intended journey is:

Observation → reflection → Creator → resurrection → accountability

If our study of creation produces knowledge but never humility, we have only completed part of the Qur’anic journey.

A powerful contemporary reading of 29:20

The verse could be paraphrased—not as a translation, but as a reflection—as saying:

Go out of your small world. Look at the earth. Study life. Examine creation. Learn from history. Think about beginnings. Then ask yourself: if Allah brought all this into existence once, why should you doubt that He can bring you back to life?

That final question is the heart of 29:20. The verse therefore joins three things that we sometimes wrongly separate: (1) Faith — believe in Allah. (2) Reason — think about the evidence. (3) Observation — go and see it yourself. And all three finally lead to: Ākhirah — you will be created again and returned to Him.

Perhaps the greatest lesson of 29:20 for us today is this: a believer should never move through the world with closed eyes. The earth is not merely a place to live upon; it is an enormous field of signs. The more deeply we observe creation, the more consciously we should remember the Creator—and the more seriously we should prepare for the “next creation” that the same verse promises.

May Allāh (سبحانه و تعالى‎) help us understand Qur'ān and follow the Sunnah of Prophet Muhammad ﷺ, which is embodiment of commandments of Allah contained in the Qur'ān. May Allah help us to be like the ones He loves and let our lives be lived helping others and not making others' lives miserable or unlivable. May all our wrong doings, whether intentional or unintentional, be forgiven before the angel of death knocks on our door. 

وَمَا عَلَيۡنَاۤ اِلَّا الۡبَلٰغُ الۡمُبِيۡنُ‏ 

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Marriage in Islam - It is more than a man and a woman living together

Opposite-gender attraction is the natural emotional and physical inclination between men and women. From time immemorial, intimacy has been the overriding factor between man and woman, and generally women have been exploited by men for satisfaction of mere animal desires. While the bondage of marriage has always been a decent way of man and woman living together, the trend of man and woman living together outside the bond of marriage is increasing these days. Even children are born, which in many a case become responsibility of women which is giving rise to the population of single mothers worldwide as men usually move on not taking the responsibility of looking after the children and woman he had been living with.

In Islam, while the gender attraction itself is not sinful—it is part of the fiṭrah with which Allah created human beings. What gives it spiritual value is how it is directed. Islam does not ask people to extinguish attraction, but to discipline it through modesty, lowering the gaze, chastity, sincere intention, and ultimately nikāḥ, the bondage of marriage. When attraction becomes a desire to honour rather than exploit, to commit rather than merely possess, to build a family rather than seek temporary pleasure, it is transformed from a biological impulse into a spiritually meaningful responsibility. 

This is reflected in Qur’an 30:21, where Allah describes the marital bond as a source of sakīnah (tranquility), mawaddah (affection), and raḥmah (mercy). Thus, attraction becomes spiritually elevated when it leads a person toward lawful love, fidelity, sacrifice, care, and responsibility before Allah.

Let us expand the meaning of the 21st verse of Surah 30. Ar Rum (The Romans) and discuss how the bond of marriage becomes a commitment and shared responsibility rather just a casual relationship.

The Verse

In Islam, marriage is far more than permission for a man and woman to live together. Nikāḥ is a moral, spiritual and social covenant through which love, sexuality, companionship and parenthood are placed within responsibility before Allah. This is beautifully captured in Surah Ar-Rūm 30:21.

وَمِنۡ ءَايَٰتِهِۦٓ أَنۡ خَلَقَ لَكُم مِّنۡ أَنفُسِكُمۡ أَزۡوَٰجٗا لِّتَسۡكُنُوٓاْ إِلَيۡهَا وَجَعَلَ بَيۡنَكُم مَّوَدَّةٗ وَرَحۡمَةًۚ إِنَّ ذَٰلِكَ لَأٓيَٰتٖ لِّقَوۡمٖ يَتَفَكَّرُونَ

“And among His signs is that He created for you spouses from among yourselves that you may find tranquility in them; and He placed between you affection and mercy. Surely in that are signs for people who reflect.” — Qur’an 30:21

Explanation

1. Three words in 30:21 explain the Islamic philosophy of marriage

The verse identifies three foundations:

• Sakīnah — سَكِينَة: tranquility. A spouse is meant to become a place of emotional security and repose—not simply a sexual partner. Marriage should create the feeling: “Here is someone with whom I belong, before whom I can be vulnerable, and with whom I face life.”
• Mawaddah — مَوَدَّة: affectionate love. This is more than physical attraction. Attraction may initiate a relationship, but mawaddah grows through companionship, loyalty, sacrifice, kindness and shared memories.
• Raḥmah — رَحْمَة: mercy. This may be the most important word as a marriage ages. Beauty changes, health changes, income changes, personalities mature, and hardship comes. When romantic intensity fluctuates, mercy keeps spouses caring for one another.

Classical Qur’anic commentary therefore understands tranquility as one of the purposes of married life, with affection and mercy sustaining it.

There is something striking here: Allah calls this relationship one of His āyāt—His signs. Marriage therefore has a spiritual significance beyond companionship.

2. Why not simply live together if two people love each other?

As mentioned earlier, the trend of living together outside the bond of marriage is on the increase which in fact is tantamount to shirking responsibility.  Islam, though,  does not condemn love or sexual desire. It asks that something as powerful as sexual intimacy be joined to commitment and responsibility.

The Qur’an describes marriage elsewhere as: مِّيثَاقًا غَلِيظًا — mīthāqan ghalīẓā - “a solemn / firm covenant.” — Qur’an 4:21

That expression changes the whole concept. A casual relationship can effectively say: “I want to be with you while our relationship works.” But Nikāḥ says: “I accept responsibilities toward you before Allah.”

Marriage in Islam, therefore, converts desire into responsibility, intimacy into covenant, companionship into family, and parenthood into an acknowledged structure of duties and rights. This is why merely living together is not considered an Islamic substitute for marriage.

3. Islam converts sexual freedom into sexual responsibility

The Qur’an is explicit: “Do not go near zinā (sexual intimacy outside bond of marriage). It is truly a shameful deed and an evil way.” — 17:32

Notice that Allah does not merely say “do not commit zinā” but “do not go near it.” The Qur’an therefore treats sexual morality preventively.

At the same time, Islam does not teach suppression of sexuality. It provides a lawful home for it. The Qur’an describes spouses beautifully: “They are a garment for you and you are a garment for them.” — 2:187. That is a garment covers, protects, beautifies, warms and remains close. That metaphor is very different from treating another human being merely as a source of pleasure.

4. Marriage protects both partners because it creates obligations

The difference between marriage and cohabitation is not merely a ceremony. Nikāḥ creates an openly acknowledged relationship with moral and legal responsibilities concerning matters such as fidelity, maintenance, marital rights, separation, family obligations and the welfare of children.

In other words: Islam does not ask, “Do these two people love each other?” only. It also asks: “Are they prepared to take responsibility for one another?”

Love without responsibility can disappear when circumstances change. Islam attempts to bind affection to ʿahd — covenant and accountability. This is one reason the Qur’an calls marriage a mīthāqan ghalīẓā—a weighty covenant.

5. And what about having children while simply living together?

Children make the argument for responsibility even stronger. The Islamic vision is not merely two adults enjoying each other's company. It looks forward toward the formation of a family across generations.

The servants of the Most Merciful pray: “Our Lord, grant us from our spouses and offspring comfort to our eyes and make us leaders for the righteous.” — Qur’an 25:74

Thus spouse and offspring appear together. A child needs more than biological parents. Ideally, the child needs recognised parenthood, commitment, stability, responsibility, upbringing and a family identity.

And one important qualification should always be made: Islam never assigns the moral wrongdoing of parents to an innocent child. Whatever the circumstances of conception, the child is innocent and deserves dignity, care and compassion. The Qur’anic principle is that one person does not bear another's moral burden.

6. Islam actually tells society to HELP people marry

This point is sometimes overlooked. Allah does not merely command individuals to remain chaste and then leave them alone with the difficulty. The Qur’an tells the community:

“Marry off the unmarried among you… If they are poor, Allah will enrich them out of His bounty.” — Qur’an 24:32

Then immediately it is added: Those unable to marry should remain chaste until Allah enriches them from His bounty. — 24:33

So there are two responsibilities: (1) Individual: protect chastity. (2) Society and families: make marriage easier.

This balance is extremely relevant today.

7. The Prophet ﷺ gave exactly the same practical advice

The Prophet ﷺ has been quoted as telling the young people:

“O young people! Whoever among you can marry should marry, because it helps him lower his gaze and guard his chastity…” And whoever could not yet marry was advised to fast. This is recorded in Ṣaḥīḥ al-Bukhārī 5066.

Notice what the Prophet ﷺ did not propose as the alternative: “Live together first and see whether it works.” Instead, the solution to sexual and emotional need was responsible marriage, while the temporary solution for someone unable to marry was self-restraint.

Please read Hadith of Prophet ﷺ: One who cannot afford to marry is advised to fast (Hadith Prophet Muhammad ﷺ)

Scholarly explanation of the Verse

• Ibn Kathir notes that Allah's mercy is evident in creating spouses from the same human kind, allowing natural harmony and repose between them. He explains mawaddah as love and raḥmah as compassion and kindness that bind husband and wife—for example, love, concern for children and caring for one another. The very fact that two people become so attached is a sign of Allah's wisdom and mercy
• Abul A‘la Maududi 
• Maududi gives perhaps the most sociological explanation. Allah created man and woman with complementary physical, emotional and psychological tendencies so that they seek peace and fulfillment through attachment to one another. This attraction leads them to establish the home, from which family, society and ultimately human civilization develop. He distinguishes mawaddah as the initial attraction/love and raḥmah as the deeper compassionate bond that grows through married life and can become even stronger in old age when youthful passion subsides.
• Maududi's observation is particularly striking: physical attraction may bring a man and woman toward each other, but it is not meant to remain merely sexual. In marriage it develops into a home, companionship and eventually a compassionate attachment in which two people remain together through youth, parenthood, illness and old age.
• Abdullah Yusuf Ali Yusuf Ali emphasizes the remarkable transformation by which the relationship of man and woman becomes a source of rest, tranquility, love and tenderness, especially as they establish a home and raise a family. For him, this special affection between the sexes is part of the natural order created by Allah and differs from ordinary friendship.
• Javed Ahmad Ghamidi Ghamidi emphasizes that Allah created humanity as two sexes with distinctive characteristics but placed such compatibility between them that each finds comfort and repose in the other. Allah implanted love and mercy so powerfully that two individuals are drawn together and can become lifelong well-wishers, sympathizers and companions in happiness and sorrow. For Ghamidi, this remarkable compatibility itself points to one wise Creator.

Thus 30:21 does not present marriage merely as a means for sexual satisfaction or reproduction. Its higher purpose is لِّتَسْكُنُوا إِلَيْهَا — “that you may find tranquility with them.” Sexual attraction belongs to the beginning of the bond; mawaddah and raḥmah are what enable the bond to endure.

How, then, should Muslims encourage marriage today?

Merely condemning young people for relationships will not solve the problem. Muslim families and communities must examine whether we ourselves have made halal unnecessarily difficult while the surrounding culture makes haram extremely easy.

Several changes are especially important.

• Make nikāḥ simpler: Excessive wedding expenses, extravagant functions, impossible financial expectations, social-status requirements and unnecessary demands can postpone marriage for years. The Qur’an itself anticipates the fear of poverty in 24:32 and tells believers not to make poverty an automatic barrier to marriage. A young person should not feel that he or she needs a house, luxury car, enormous savings and a lavish wedding before becoming worthy of marriage.
• Teach marriage as responsibility—not merely romance 
• Young Muslims should learn before marriage about: (1) character and compatibility; (2) communication; (3) sexual ethics; (4) financial responsibilities; (5) rights of husband and wife; (6) conflict resolution; (7) parenting; (8) patience and forgiveness.
• 30:21 is important precisely because it progresses beyond attraction to sakinah, mawaddah and rahmah.
• Parents should become facilitators rather than gatekeepers Parents certainly have legitimate concerns about religion, character and compatibility. But race, caste, family prestige, profession, wealth and elaborate social customs should not become artificial obstacles that leave mature adults unable to marry.
• Stop presenting marriage only as restriction 
• The message should not simply be: “Relationships outside marriage are haram.” 
• The fuller Islamic message is: “Allah has created something far better: a relationship in which love becomes worship, intimacy becomes lawful, loyalty becomes rewarded, children become an amānah, and two people help one another toward Allah.”
• That is much closer to the spirit of 30:21.
• Teaching who to marry as per Islamic dictates This is very important. 
• I have read many  accounts on social media wherein Muslim girls have been living with non Muslim boys and even have children. This is NOT AT ALL ADMISSIABLE for girls in Islam. A Muslim girl must marry a Muslim boy - but even living with a Muslim boy outside marriage and having intimate relation is STRICTLY PROHIBITED.
• This trend is on the increase in India, where Muslim girls marrying Hindu boys is on the increase - which totally forbidden. If such marriages have been brokered then either the boy accepts Islam or the marriage annulled.
• As for Muslim boys, they can marry girls from the people of the Book - but again they cannot live with them outside matrimonial bond and have intimate relations.
• Such things are taking place as parents have failed to impart laws of marriage in Islam to their children. 

Profound difference between cohabitation and nikāḥ

We might summarize it this way:

Cohabitation as a romantic arrangement                 Islamic Nikāḥ

Relationship based primarily on personal choice Relationship entered through covenant

Intimacy precedes formal responsibility         Responsibility legitimizes intimacy

Commitment may remain undefined                 Commitment is explicitly undertaken

Private arrangement between two people         Socially acknowledged family bond

Either partner may avoid defined obligations Rights and obligations accompany the relationship

Focus can remain on the couple                         Marriage opens toward family and children

“We remain while we choose to”                         “We have made a covenant before Allah”

Of course, a marriage certificate by itself does not produce sakīnah. Muslim marriages can also contain selfishness, cruelty or irresponsibility. Qur’an 30:21 is therefore not simply describing what every marriage automatically becomes; it is presenting what marriage is meant to become.

A message particularly relevant to Muslim youth

Perhaps the most effective way to communicate Islam's position today is not: “Marry because otherwise you will be sinful.” Rather: “Do not settle for a relationship in which someone wants your love, companionship, intimacy and perhaps even children, but hesitates to make a covenant of responsibility toward you. Islam considers you worthy of commitment.”

Marriage therefore in Islam means: (1) Accepting duties and taking responsibilities rather than sharing pleasures (2) Taking responsibility to build a future rather than sharing the present only (3) Marriage is to be taken as an honour and not as means to satisfy desires.

And this brings us directly back to 30:21:

• سَكَن — tranquility
• مَوَدَّة — loving affection
• رَحْمَة — enduring mercy

Those three words give us one of the Qur’an’s most beautiful definitions of married life.

A deep reflection

This verse looks at the shared life between the two sexes. People are well aware of their feelings towards the other sex; indeed, they are often preoccupied with this relationship. Very often they are motivated to a certain action but they seldom remember that it is God who created their spouses out of their own kind and gave them emotions and feelings. He it is who has made the relationship between the two a source of physical and emotional comfort, stability, spiritual friendship, and reassurance for both. The gentle Qur’ānic expression of this relationship profoundly inspires our hearts: “so that you might incline towards them, and He engenders love and tenderness between you.”

“In this there are clear signs indeed for people who think.” When people think and reflect, they appreciate the divine wisdom in creating each of the two sexes in such a way that is complementary to the other, providing fulfilment for natural needs whether psychological, mental or physical. Thus both incline towards each other and find comfort and stability, tenderness and reassurance, love and compassion. This is so because God has made the physical and mental constitution of each naturally inclined to fulfil the needs of the other, while their meeting and union ensures the beginning of a new life for a new generation.

Islam therefore does not regard marriage as an unnecessary piece of paper added to love. It regards marriage as the covenant that transforms love into accountable companionship and provides a protected home for intimacy, family and future generations.

And perhaps the challenge for Muslims today is twofold: teach the sanctity of nikāḥ—but at the same time remove the cultural extravagance and unnecessary obstacles that make young people afraid of it.

May Allāh (سبحانه و تعالى‎) help us understand Qur'ān and follow the Sunnah of Prophet Muhammad ﷺ, which is embodiment of commandments of Allah contained in the Qur'ān. May Allah help us to be like the ones He loves and let our lives be lived helping others and not making others' lives miserable or unlivable. May all our wrong doings, whether intentional or unintentional, be forgiven before the angel of death knocks on our door. 

وَمَا عَلَيۡنَاۤ اِلَّا الۡبَلٰغُ الۡمُبِيۡنُ‏ 

(36:17) and our duty is no more than to clearly convey the Message.”

That is Our duty is only to convey to you the message that Allah has entrusted us with. Then it is for you to accept it or reject it. We have not been made responsible for making you accept it forcibly, and if you do not accept it, we shall not be seized in consequence of your disbelief, you will yourselves be answerable for your actions on Day of Resurrection.

May Allah forgive me if my posts ever imply a piety far greater than I possess. I am most in need of guidance.

Reading the Qur'ān should be a daily obligation of a Muslim - Reading it with translation will make it meaningful. But reading its Exegesis / Tafsir will make you understand it fully. It will also help the Muslims to have grasp over social issues and their answers discussed in the Qur'an and other matter related to inter faith so that they are able to discuss issues with non-Muslims with authority based on refences from Qur'an.

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• Selected verses from selected Surahs of Al-Qurʾān for compiled verses from other surahs.
• Selected Verses from Al Qur'an about a Specific Subject (Reference Page) to know more about what Qur'an says about specific subjects
• Selected Verses from the Qur'an. 

You may also refer to our Reference Pages  and Understanding Al Qur'an for knowing more about Islam and Qur'ān.

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An effort has been made to gather explanation / exegesis of the surahs and selected verses of Al-Qurʾān from authentic sources and then present a least possible condensed explanation of the surah. In that the exegesis of the chapters of the Quran is mainly based on the "Tafhim al-Qur'an - The Meaning of the Qur'an" by one of the most enlightened scholars of the Muslim World Sayyid Abul Ala Maududi.  

In addition, other sources which have been explored and views of other scholars have been incorporated while explaining meaning of a verse. Those desirous of detailed explanations and tafsir (exegesis), may refer to these sites. For expansion of meaning and themes / contextual background help from ChatGPT is also taken.

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