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Does comparison with others’ blessings lead to Thanklessness

April 07, 2026 Jalal HB No comments

There is a very common phrase: Others' lawn is always greener - that is one is always comparing the blessings of other with one's shortfalls, without giving due importance to own blessings which may be far superior than others. In fact constant comparison with the blessings of others leads to utter discontentment and envy. Such a state of mindset shifts focus away from one's own blessings, causing individuals to overlook their personal gifts and focus only on what they lack.

In fact, comparing yourself to others’ blessings can become thanklessness (kufr al-ni‘mah) depending on what it does to your heart. Let us dwell more in this state of mind in light of Al Qur'an and Hadiths of Prophet Muhammad ﷺ - and see how can we build a positive frame of mind by being more grateful of our own blessings rather than having heartburns by envying what other have.

When comparison becomes thanklessness

Let us reflect on some of the factors which turn gratitude into thanklessness:

Discontent with what Allah gave you This is a common feeling that hits most of us in form or the other. Such discontentment arises when we start to feel “Why don’t I have this?” or “This isn’t enough.” This contradicts gratitude.
Denying or ignoring blessings

Surah An-Nahl (16:83): “They recognize the favor of Allah, then deny it; and most of them are ungrateful.”
This means that they know blessings come from Allah - yet behave as if they don’t.

Focusing on others instead of your blessings

Allah says in Surah An-Nahl (16:18): “If you tried to count Allah’s blessings, you could not…”
That is comparison makes Ignore what you already have.

Focusing only on what’s missing

It is reported in Sahih al-Bukhari that the Prophet ﷺ warned about people who are ungrateful for kindness (especially in close relationships)
That is Remembering negatives and Forgetting positives

Complaining and ingratitude

Surah Al-Adiyat (100:6): “Indeed, man is ungrateful to his Lord.”
This leads to Constant dissatisfaction - and Forgetting blessings quickly

Resentment toward Allah’s distribution

It is said in Al Qur'an: “Do not wish for what Allah has given some over others…” Surah An-Nisa (4:32)
This shows that objecting internally to Allah’s wisdom which is a form of spiritual ingratitude

Envy (Hasad) This state of mind gets activated when one is wanting the blessing removed from others - This is clearly a major spiritual disease.
Love of wealth leading to ingratitude

It is mentioned in Sahih Muslim that Prophet Muhammad ﷺ cautioned that “If the son of Adam had a valley of gold, he would want another…”
That is man has endless desires which cannot be fulfilled and instead of being thankful for what one has, one is always vying for more.
This means that Endless desires kill gratitude

Deeper Insight

Let us see how scholars explain this diseased state of mind that usually creeps into many of us and makes our lives miserable. The crux of the problem or discontentment and thanklessness is not comparison itself— It is Attachment to dunya which give rise to such discontented feelings and let us envy others. That is when the heart is attached to Wealth and Status.

This unreal comparison thus give rise to unnecessary heartburns, pains and endless agony

What does thanklessness lead to?

Shifts Focus to Lack: Comparison traps you into focusing only on what someone else has that you do not.
Stirs Dissatisfaction: Rather than bringing appreciation, looking at others' lives stirs up envy, entitlement, and dissatisfaction.
Creates a "False" Reality: People often compare their behind-the-scenes life with someone else's highlight reel, forgetting that every person has unique challenges.
Blinds to Personal Blessings: It makes people take their own blessings for granted—things like health, family, or safety, which others may be praying for.

The Consequences of being Thanklessness

Discontentment: Comparison fuels the "grass is greener" mentality, leading to a failure to appreciate one's current circumstances.
Spiritual/Emotional Debt: Thanklessness is often seen as a symptom of self-centeredness or pride, where a person fails to recognize that what they have is a gift.
Reduced Joy: It actively steals joy and fosters a bitter, complaining spirit.

Modern Reality

Although thanklessness has been embodied in man since ages, the environment around us has multiplied this menace because of easy access to social media, career competition and lifestyle exposure. Resultantly, people feel poor, even though they are not. This is exactly Practical thanklessness.

We must learn how to be grateful, rather than thankless. Sometimes we fail to count our blessings being overshadowed by success and blessings of others. A man looking hale and hearty, wealthy and successful outwardly may have health and family problems which we may not be having. Wealth is only wordily - but true gratitude comes when one lives for a life in the hereafter.

وَمَا عَلَيۡنَاۤ اِلَّا الۡبَلٰغُ الۡمُبِيۡنُ‏

(36:17) and our duty is no more than to clearly convey the Message.”

That is Our duty is only to convey to you the message that Allah has entrusted us with. Then it is for you to accept it or reject it. We have not been made responsible for making you accept it forcibly, and if you do not accept it, we shall not be seized in consequence of your disbelief, you will yourselves be answerable for your actions on Day of Resurrection.

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Al Qur’an cautions women not to be soft in speech - lest men with diseased heart take a wrong meaning

April 05, 2026 Jalal HB No comments

The soft voice of a women is always attractive to all men but with a big difference: Men of good character find the softness in a woman's voice as a symbol of her purity, chastity, dignity and good character. But men with diseased heart take the soft voice of a women tempting, luring and inviting. For this very reason, Islam cautions women not to be soft in speech lest men with bad character and mindset with a diseased heart try to take advantage and may attempt undue advances.

Al-Qurʾān: Selected verses from: The 32nd verse of Sürah Al Ahzab cautions women to be careful with the tone of their speech when speaking to non-maḥram men (men whom she can be married to), shared herein under with its context, explanation by eminent Muslim scholars and its relevance in our life today.

The Verse

يَـٰنِسَآءَ ٱلنَّبِىِّ لَسْتُنَّ كَأَحَدٍۢ مِّنَ ٱلنِّسَآءِ ۚ إِنِ ٱتَّقَيْتُنَّ فَلَا تَخْضَعْنَ بِٱلْقَوْلِ فَيَطْمَعَ ٱلَّذِى فِى قَلْبِهِۦ مَرَضٌۭ وَقُلْنَ قَوْلًۭا مَّعْرُوفًۭا

O wives of the Prophet! You are not like any other women: if you are mindful ˹of Allah˺, then do not be overly effeminate in speech ˹with men˺ or those with sickness in their hearts may be tempted, but speak in a moderate tone.

The verse quoted above is originally addresses the wives of the Prophet Muhammad, stating they are not like other women and instructing them to maintain piety by not being soft in speech. This prevents those with diseased hearts from developing improper desires, directing them to speak in a straightforward, honorable manner.

What does this verse mean?

“Do not be soft in speech”

The verse refers to: Speaking in a seductive, overly gentle, or suggestive tone
It does not mean, however, that women cannot speak or must be harsh.. The firmness is the key to the tone.
Ibn Kathir explains that “Do not be soft in speech” means "Do not make the voice attractive, alluring, or flirtatious." He adds that this part of the verse refers to: Tone, not the act of speaking itself. He emphasizes: Speech should be serious and dignified, not suggestive.
Al-Tabari adds: "Softness here means intentional gentleness meant to attract attention - that is Not natural kindness, but A tone that may invite wrong thoughts

“Lest one with disease in the heart…”

“Disease” here means Lust, Bad intentions and Hypocrisy
That is Some people may misinterpret tone and develop wrong thoughts

“Speak in an appropriate manner”

Women are asked to be Clear, Respectful, and Dignified in order men should get tempted and commit advances.
Important Context Although, the verse is directly خطاب (addressed) to the wives of the Prophet ﷺ, but scholars say: The principle applies generally to modesty in interaction

Balanced Understanding Islam does NOT say: Women shouldn’t speak to men, instead interaction should be: Respectful, Professional, and Without flirtation or suggestiveness.

Deeper Wisdom Behind the Verse

Islam الإسلام protects before harm happens. It doesn’t just forbid actions -but It blocks pathways to temptation. This is called: سد الذرائع (blocking the means)
Recognizing human psychology

Attraction can begin subtly through Tone, Attention and Repetition.
The Qur’an addresses early stages, not just outcomes

Responsibility of both sides

The verse mentions: “One in whose heart is disease”
That means Problem is not only speech - But also Listener’s intention

Balanced Understanding (Very Important)

Islam’s guidance here is Not Restricting women unfairly
But Creating a safe, respectful social environment

Final Reflection

This verse asks: “Is my interaction guided by dignity—or by desire?”
Because Small tones can lead to bigger consequences
Therefore one must Avoid Anything that invites misunderstanding or temptation

Relevance Today

In olden times, although there existed no barriers between meeting men and women frequently, after the revelation of above verse, and verses alike, women were cautioned to be restricted to their direct interaction with men. However, in our modern context, the mutual interaction has increased manifold as men and women frequently interact at Workplaces, Social media and Public gatherings.

Thus this verse provides a guidance about Maintaining boundaries and dignity

Application in Today’s World

Let us list down DOs and DON'Ts that allow us the practical manifestation of this verse:

Workplace interactions

Allowed: Professional communication, Meetings, collaboration
Avoid: Flirtatious tone and Over-personal emotional engagement
Remember: Islam الإسلام promotes: Professional dignity

Social media & texting

Today’s version of “soft speech” can include: Flirty messages, Emojis with suggestive intent and Casual intimacy.
However, the principle still applies: Tone matters—even in text

Customer-facing roles

Politeness is required
But there is a Difference between: Professional friendliness and Intentional charm to attract

Everyday conversation Mutual gender speaking normally is fine but the interaction should be Clear, Respectful and Purposeful

End Note The verse is about protecting hearts and intentions but not controlling speech harshly. It is about avoiding behavior that can Be misunderstood and Lead to temptation.

وَمَا عَلَيۡنَاۤ اِلَّا الۡبَلٰغُ الۡمُبِيۡنُ‏

(36:17) and our duty is no more than to clearly convey the Message.”

May Allah forgive me if my posts ever imply a piety far greater than I possess. I am most in need of guidance.

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How wealth can corrupt quietly, without a person even realizing it - A subtle parable from Al Qur'an

April 04, 2026 Jalal HB No comments

There is no harm in earning more if one wants to lead a comfortable life, so long it is warned the Halal (permissible) way. But amassing wealth from Haram (not permissible) means through unfair means like corruption and usurping rights of others is never prescribed in any society. Wealth itself isn’t evil—in the Qur’an it’s a ni‘mah (blessing). But it has a unique power to quietly corrupt the heart if it’s not controlled - that is why Allah in Al Qur'an calls wealth a fitnah (test).

This is the theme of a parable mentioned in Surah Al-Qalam (68:17–33) — often called “the story of the أصحاب الجنة (People of the Garden).” It is one of the Qur’an’s most subtle and powerful lessons on how wealth can corrupt quietly, without a person even realizing it. Let us read the parable and see how money corrupts a man, him not even realizing it:

The Story (Simple Summary)

Allah says He tested the people of Makkah just like He tested a group of men who owned a lush garden (orchard). The story began from a noble man who harvested a garden and was always blessed with the best produce since he used to give out a portion of it to the poor. For this noble act, Allah blessed him with more with each yield. But after his death, his sons who inherited the garden were not not as generous as their fathers to dole out a part of the produce in charity. So, they made a secret plan: “We will harvest it early in the morning… and we will not allow any poor person to enter.” (68:23–24)

And obviously, their greed for more made them exclude the needy intentionally. And quite naturally Allah did not like their sinister plan and destroyed their garden overnight. And when the owners arrived in the morning, they were shocked to see a devastated garden. Initially they thought they have lost their way and come to a different place. But then they realized: “No, we have been deprived.” (68:27)

And then the though dawned on them and admitted their greed which corrupted their hearts and took away the gratitude of thanking Allah for the blessing them: “Glory be to our Lord! Indeed, we were wrongdoers.” (68:29)

Why this is called “Wealth corrupts silently”

The story is not about sudden evil — it is about gradual moral decline which slowly polluted their heart and mind from doing good. They never knew that it is not greed but remembrance and gratitude that brings blessing and pleasure of Allah. Let us see how ordinary men are lured into evil:

They were not originally evil

Their father was righteous and obviously inherited goodness and knew what was charity.
But their hearts and minds started to corrupt after wealth started to land into their hands.

The corruption was internal first

They didn’t initially act — they first changed intention and planned secretly, agreed on not paying charity and justified their decision.
This shows that Moral سقوط (decline) begins first in the mind and intention, not in action.

They used strategy to avoid responsibility

They said: “Let’s go early - So no poor person sees us”
This is very subtle: They didn’t deny charity openly - but engineered a way around it.
This is silent corruption: Not rejecting الخير (good), but avoiding it cleverly.

They forgot to say “In Shā’Allāh”

The Qur’an points this out: “They did not make any exception (i.e., say ‘if Allah wills’).” (68:18)
That is they thet though that they had become self-reliant and were in full control and ignored dependence on Allah
This is spiritual corruption behind material greed.

The punishment was immediate and symbolic

The wrath of Allah does not fall immediately inn many cases. But sometimes an immediate Divine reaction is needed to teach timely lesson to someone.
In this case, their garden — source of pride — was destroyed overnight.
This was to teach a lesson that the same wealth that gives security can vanish instantly if one is not grateful to Allah for His blessings.

Realization came only after loss

It is human nature that realization comes only when after one loses.
In this case, only when everything was gone did they say: “Indeed, we were wrongdoers.”
This reflects a deep human pattern " People often recognize فساد (corruption) after consequences appear."

Deep Psychological Message

This parable shows that wealth corrupts not always through: (1) Arrogance, (2) Oppression - open ظلم.
But through subtle shifts like Greed, neglect of the poor and loss of gratitude
This is far more dangerous because: The person still thinks they are “good.”

Modern Relevance

This story applies directly today:

Corporate greed: Profit over people and avoiding responsibility through systems
Personal wealth: “I earned it, I deserve it” - Ignoring zakāh/charity spirit
Global inequality: Hoarding resources, Structuring systems that exclude the needy
Psychological state: Comfort leading to forgetfulness of Allah leads to Subtle hardening of the heart

The Central Lesson

The Qur’an is teaching that though Wealth is not the problem — What wealth does to the heart is the problem.

The Final Warning (68:33) After the story, Allah says: “Such is the punishment — but the punishment of the Hereafter is greater, if only they knew.”

This means that this worldly loss was a warning - the real danger is moral failure leading to the Hereafter

One-line summary: The parable of the garden in Surah Al-Qalam shows that wealth can corrupt silently by changing intentions, creating entitlement, and distancing the heart from Allah and the needy — until a person loses both moral clarity and divine blessing.

وَمَا عَلَيۡنَاۤ اِلَّا الۡبَلٰغُ الۡمُبِيۡنُ‏

(36:17) and our duty is no more than to clearly convey the Message.”

May Allah forgive me if my posts ever imply a piety far greater than I possess. I am most in need of guidance.

You may also refer to our exclusive reference page: Selected verses from selected Surahs of Al-Qurʾān for compiled verses from other surahs.

You may also refer to our Reference Pages and Understanding Al Qur'an for knowing more about Islam and Qur'ān.

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How does Al-Qurʾān guide us to build a strong character framework

April 01, 2026 Jalal HB No comments

Character is defined as the mental and moral qualities distinctive to an individual. It refers to the aggregate of features and traits that form the individual nature of some person or thing. Character generally defines the moral or ethical qualities of a man, thus make him to be called as a man of honorable character.

While Al-Qurʾān lays down a broader framework of humanity, it addresses all matters that improve the quality of man by defining his character, making him a useful entity of the community and make him stand out from other who prefer building up a reputation by any means to look noble and respectful, no matter what he hides behind his masquerade.

With this premise in view, we share ayat / verses from Surah Al Qalam (The Pen) which form the basis of a framework for the true character of a believer.

The Character Framework from Surah Al-Qalam

We can derive 5 core traits to build a strong character. In one of our next posts we would mention 5 traits that eliminate or tarnish the image of a man and ultimately his character.

Build: Strong Inner Identity (Not Dependent on People)

When Prophet Muhammad ﷺ was mocked and attempts were made by them for his character assassination, Allah reassures Prophet Muhammad ﷺ that “You are not mad… you are upon great character.” (68:2–4)
That is the Prophet Muhammad ﷺ reassured that his identity comes from Allah’s معيار (standard) - and not from Public opinion, Criticism and Lay by validation., not simple labels.
Therefore one must define oneself by Values and Principles.
In order to be man of true and honest character, one should let social media, workplace, or society define your worth.

Build: Exceptional Character (Akhlaqt)

(68:4) "and you are certainly on the most exalted standard of moral excellence."
Why it is being said is that Character is the highest form of Da'wah (inviting others to one's faith)
Thus a strong and good character is reflected in consistency, Integrity, and اخلاق under pressure.
Practically speaking, controlling one's anger under odds (as did Prophet Muhammad ﷺ when being rebuked and restrained his anger not to further intimidate his opponents) and still holding on to his honesty and treating even his staunch.
One must always be honest to himself and others, specially in difficult times because in such times men try to indulge into conduct unbecoming.
Treating people well is one of the best character trait of a believer. Prophet Muhammad ﷺ never treated people harshly and was always a helping hand, even to his enemies. This helped The Prophet ﷺ won hearts before arguments.

Build: Independence from Corrupt Influence

In verses 8-13 of the surah, the theme is Not to obey the deniers.
People who are Slanderer, Backbiter, Preventer of good and Aggressive sinner should always be avoided for while being in company of such people, one tends to adopt their bad habits which tarnish his good character.
Remember: Your environment shapes your character
So what to do? Don’t follow: Toxic leaders, Corrupt systems, and Peer pressure
Learn to say “no” with conviction

Build: Gratitude and Awareness in Blessings

The Story of أصحاب الجنة (68:17–33) tells us a great lesson.
Remember: Wealth is a test of gratitude - while Ingratitude leads to loss
Therefore always say: “In shā’ Allah” (recognize Allah’s will)
Give charity regularly which is a means of acknowledging blessings.
Never ever assume that success is self-made - it is a blessing from Allah. So do not be arrogant of your success, rather inculcate humility and gratitude for success, for it could be taken away if one is not grateful.

Build: Accountability Mindset

It said (68:35–36) → “Will We treat Muslims like criminals?”
This means that Life is not random and Justice will happen.
Therefore, think long-term and prefer آخِرَة (Hereafter) over dunya (wordily life)
Before doing anything, ask: “How will this look before Allah?”

When one incorporates these traits in himself, he is sure to reform himself and would always prefer his character over his reputation, for a strong character is more enduring as it comes from within than the reputation which is always short lived and is always dependent on external factors which are borrowed to please others, and not oneself - what to talk of our Creator.

Core Takeaway

Remember, True success is not: Wealth, Status, or Approval by others, Rather it is the Strong character rooted in awareness of Allah.

In time we will add more selected ayat / verses from this surah.

وَمَا عَلَيۡنَاۤ اِلَّا الۡبَلٰغُ الۡمُبِيۡنُ‏

(36:17) and our duty is no more than to clearly convey the Message.”

May Allah forgive me if my posts ever imply a piety far greater than I possess. I am most in need of guidance.

You may also refer to our exclusive reference page: Selected verses from selected Surahs of Al-Qurʾān for compiled verses from other surahs.

You may also refer to our Reference Pages and Understanding Al Qur'an for knowing more about Islam and Qur'ān.

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Be warned O’ Men! Your wealth and children are only a trial - An oft repeated warning in Al-Qurʾān

March 30, 2026 Jalal HB No comments

Love of one's family and wealth/positional status is more often than not is the man reason why a man works or even overworks. Although love for family and wealth is natural (fitrah), yet many of us do not know (or at least try to know) that these are intentionally placed in us as a test. The Divine Wisdom behind the love and quest for more rests on one simple principle: Whether a man still loves his Creator more or his wordily relations and wealth? In fact It’s what comes first when there is a conflict between one's family/wealth and love of the Creator who provided us means of sustenance, wealth and the family.

For this very reason, we often prefer family & wealth for these are visible and provide us immediate pleasure. On the other hand we tend to defer worship of our Creator for its effects are invisible and hidden to be rewarded till the life of Hereafter (Akhirah). Human النفس naturally prefers What it can see and feel now. For this very reason, there are many a warnings in Al-Qurʾān that warn men that his wealth and children, though a Divine blessings, are only a trial and temptation. This does not however mean that one must sacrifice his family for devoting himself for the worship of God only. It means that one must always try to balance out his priorities and proportionate his attention to both - though priority to find time to always thank Allah for His countless blessings.

Here in under, we share some of the verses from AL Qur'an from different parts to impress upon our readers the Divine warnings to not to engross one self in his wordily love and forgetting his Creator altogether, and will also try to expand the core of these verses as interpreted by scholars of Islam.

Selected verses from Al Qur'an

Surah At-Taghābun (64:15): “Your wealth and your children are only a trial (fitnah), and Allah—with Him is a عظیم (great) reward.”
Surah Al-Anfal (8:28): “Your wealth and your children are but a trial…”
Surah Al-Kahf (18:46): “Wealth and children are adornment of worldly life…”
Surah Al-Munafiqun (63:9): “Do not let your wealth and children distract you from the remembrance of Allah…”

Reasons of the oft repeated warnings in Al Qur'an

These warnings and cautions are repeated time and against to keep the man on the set course as defined by his Creator and not to be distracted in anyway should a conflict between the two appears as a test.

The Apparent (Ẓāhir) Meaning:

At the surface, although the love for wealth and children are not condemned, yet these are called a fitnah (test/trial),
That is these can neither bring you closer to Allah nor distract you away from Him.

Deeper Wisdom (Bāṭin)

Fitnah is not always negative: Wealth and children are neutral tools to inculcate love among men - but these also reveal: (1) Your true priorities, and (2) Your relationship with Allah
A Subtle distraction: The danger is not obvious sin - but it is: Being so busy earning, providing, and pleasing family that you slowly drift away from Allah.
Competing loves:

These verses highlight a hidden tension: Love of Wealth and Family vs Love of : Allah and rewards of the آخِرَة (Hereafter)
The test is: Which one comes first when they conflict?

Explanation by Scholars

Ibn Kathir

Wealth and children are blessings but also tests of responsibility.
The real question: Will you use them in obedience—or disobedience?

Al-Qurtubi

Fitnah here means something that tests your priorities.
That is do these Distract you from Allah? or Or help you earn reward?

Sayyid Abul Ala Maududi

Here one should also keep in view the Holy Prophet's saying which Tabarani has related on the authority of Hadrat Abu Malik al-Ash'ari, saying: "Your real enemy is not he whom if you kill there is success for you, and if he kills you, there is Paradise for you; but your real enemy may b your own child who is born of your own loins, or the wealth of which you are the owner." That is why here us well as in Al-Anfal: 28, Allah says: If you save yourselves from the temptation and allurements of worldly possessions and Children and succeed in keeping love of them subject to the love of Allah, there are rich rewards for you with Allah.

For elaboration of the verse 64:15 by other scholars, refer to our previous post: Which two things are a trial for the Believers?

Hadith of the Prophet ﷺ

Prophet Muhammad ﷺ too has asked his companions to strike a balance between the two so as to be successful in the آخِرَة (Hereafter). Herein under are some authentic Hadiths:

The Prophet ﷺ said: “Every nation has a trial, and the trial of my الأمة is wealth.” (Sahih al-Bukhari)
“The son of آدم says: ‘My wealth, my wealth’—but what is truly yours is what you spend, eat, or give in charity…” (Sahih Muslim)

These Hadiths and the verses above mean that What you love and keep will be left behind, and What you give and worship will stay with you even after the Hereafter.

Relevance in Today’s World

In our materialistic approach to our lives, these verses and Hadiths are extremely relevant for our priorities and goal posts are at tangent with what is expected of us a true believers.

Modern definition of success:

Today success means Wealth (High income), career status and family comfort. But Al Qur'an reframes this priority and cautions that these These are tests, not final goals.
“I’m doing it for my family” This is a common justification for working endlessly, thereby neglecting deen - that is skipping prayers while at work and not making up immediately after when one is free, or not giving out a penny in charity to save it for the well being of one's family. Thus the family itself can become a fitnah.

Endless pursuit of wealth We become so engrossed with seeking Promotions and inviting our wealth in Investments for better dividends required for Lifestyle upgrades. These pursuits rob our time for Salah, recitation of Al Qur'an and reflecting over such warnings and cautions.
Children as distraction The education and career success of our children of perfecting and developing their career skills often neglect us developing their īmān and character. This takes our children from religions and makes them more materialistic rather than better humans.

Balanced Islamic Perspective

Islam does NOT and in no way suggests to leave the pursuit of wealth and ignore our families. For wealth is necessary for the ensuring providing good life for our children and loving our families to ensure a peaceful home and resting peace of mind. Instead Islam encourages earning wealth from Halal means and not forgetting to give a part of it in charity for Allah loves those who give out charity for the better life of Have NOTs.
Islam allows loving our families for one of the basic pillars of Islam is establishment of family rather than having affairs that are considered Haram. However, the love of family should not let us pull away from remembrance of Allah.

Practical Application Today

Re-check priorities: Ask yourself Is my schedule centered around dunya or Allah?
Use wealth as a tool: While supporting one's family from the earnings, do not forget helping the needy by giving charity and Zakat - for these too support our Deen.
Raise righteous families: We must impart wordily education to our children so that they are able to earn for their them and their families - however at the same time we must teach them Deen by praying with them, reciting Qur'an together, reflecting on Qur'anic wisdom so that they too become a balanced personality when they enter their practical life.
Set limits: One must work hard to be successful and earn money for good sustenance of one's family, but this should not be at the cost of one's worship (Salah), bettering one's Character (اخلاق) and preparing for the Hereafter (آخِرَة).

That is we must strike a balance in our lives for both wordily life and preparing for the life after this life.

Final Reflection

These verses ask a powerful question: Are your blessings bringing you closer to Allah… or quietly pulling you away? For wealth and family are tests, not guarantees of success - but Real success is what we earn with Allah. Are we ready for it?

You may refer to more Selected Verses from Sürah 64. At-Taghābun - The day of Loss and Gain, already published.

وَمَا عَلَيۡنَاۤ اِلَّا الۡبَلٰغُ الۡمُبِيۡنُ‏

(36:17) and our duty is no more than to clearly convey the Message.”

May Allah forgive me if my posts ever imply a piety far greater than I possess. I am most in need of guidance.

You may also refer to our exclusive reference page: Selected verses from selected Surahs of Al-Qurʾān for compiled verses from other surahs.

You may also refer to our Reference Pages and Understanding Al Qur'an for knowing more about Islam and Qur'ān.

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Beware! Allah knows even what is hidden in your bosom

March 29, 2026 Jalal HB No comments

Most of us resemble the fictional character Dr Jekyll and Mr. Hyde. We hide the evil that resides in our hearts and display a charming face that is oft misleading and deceiving. But for Allah, our Creator, nothing is concealed or hidden even deep inside our bosom. And it is this knowledge which will be presented on the Day of Judgement to every individual which may come as a big loss for many.

This is the subject of verse 4 of Surah At-Taghābun – The Day of Loss and Gain being presented to our readers with its apparent and hidden meaning, displaying the wisdom and knowledge of our Creator which no one can ever know. That is, He is the possessor of absolute power: He can do whatever He wills, there is no power to restrain or limit His Omnipotence.

The Verse: Surah At-Taghābun (64:4)

يَعْلَمُ مَا فِى ٱلسَّمَـٰوَٰتِ وَٱلْأَرْضِ وَيَعْلَمُ مَا تُسِرُّونَ وَمَا تُعْلِنُونَ ۚ وَٱللَّهُ عَلِيمٌۢ بِذَاتِ ٱلصُّدُورِ

“He knows what is in the heavens and the earth, and He knows what you conceal and what you reveal. And Allah is Knowing of what is within the hearts.”

Meaning and Explanation

Let us unpack this verse and see how we are being watched every second of our lives and how one day our hearts will be opened on Day of Judgement. This explanation is only in point form for quick understanding. Those wanting to read the detailed explanation and tafseer, may refer to the links given at the end of this post.

Apparent (Ẓāhir) Meaning At the surface level, the verse states three layers of Allah’s knowledge:

Universal knowledge Allah knows everything which is in The heavens and the earth. Nothing in existence is hidden from Him.
External vs hidden actions He knows what you show openly and what you hide from others
Inner reality (deepest level) Allah knows what is in the hearts (intentions, thoughts, motives) - This goes beyond actions, well into inner النفس (self)

Explanation by Scholars

Ibn Kathir notes that Allah’s knowledge is Complete and perfect and is Not limited to actions, but includes intentions. Even what a person hides from people—or struggles to understand themselves - Allah knows.
Al-Tabari Emphasizes that Nothing escapes Allah’s knowledge - سواء السر والعلن (secret and open are equal before Him)

Deeper (Bāṭin / Reflective) Meaning & Wisdom

الإسلام is about inner truth, not just ظاهر
Outwardly, People see your actions
But this verse shifts focus on Judgement of Allah and He will judge a person on the knowledge which is hidden for Allah judges: Why you did it
Hidden wisdom: A good action with bad intention may lose value - A small action with sincerity may be عظیم and fetch immense blessings and gains both in this world and the Hereafter.
Accountability is deeper than behavior

Human systems judge: What is visible
Allah judges: Intentions, Feelings and Hidden choices
This creates true moral depth

Psychological realism of the Qur’an This verse recognizes:

Humans have: Public self, Private self, and Inner self
Allah knows all three perfectly

Comfort vis warning (dual effect)

Comfort: If you are misunderstood, Allah knows your truth and if your intentions are sincere, these are محفوظ (preserved) for reward both in this world and the life in the Hereafter.
Warning: You cannot “fake righteousness” for Hidden فساد (corruption) is known to Allah.

Spiritual training (تربیہ) This verse trains the believer to develop Muraqabah (constant awareness of Allah). You act as if Allah sees your heart at all times

Relevance Today

Social media vs reality Today people curate a perfect image - but this verse reminds that Allah sees the unfiltered reality
Intentions behind good deeds

people give charity for fame and worship for appearance and to be observed by others so as to be known as pious and God fearing.
But this verse asks: Why are you really doing this? for Allah knows your intentions - so why deceive yourself and others?

Inner struggles We have anxiety, fears and hidden pains - but take comfort from knowing that Allah fully understands what you cannot express.
Integrity in private life The truth is Who you are when no one is watching? - That is your true self before Allah

Core Wisdom of the Verse

The real standard is not just what you do - It is: (1) What you intend, (2) What you hide, and (3) What you truly are inside

Final Reflection: This verse asks a powerful question: If your heart was visible… would your life change? Because: To Allah, it already is.

Summary

Apparent meaning: Allah knows everything—seen and unseen
Hidden wisdom: True accountability is based on inner reality
Transformative lesson: Purify your heart, not just your actions

So let us reshape our lives and cleanse our hearts and minds. We may deceive the world by wearing a charming mask and displaying intentions to mislead them of our true selves. But we can never dodge the Divine insight which knows every intentions of ours.

You may refer to more Selected Verses from Sürah 64. At Taghabun (The Day of Loss and Gain) already published.

وَمَا عَلَيۡنَاۤ اِلَّا الۡبَلٰغُ الۡمُبِيۡنُ‏

(36:17) and our duty is no more than to clearly convey the Message.”

May Allah forgive me if my posts ever imply a piety far greater than I possess. I am most in need of guidance.

You may also refer to our exclusive reference page: Selected verses from selected Surahs of Al-Qurʾān for compiled verses from other surahs.

You may also refer to our Reference Pages and Understanding Al Qur'an for knowing more about Islam and Qur'ān.

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Al-Qurʾān: Overview and selected verses from Sürah 64. At-Taghābun - The day of Loss and Gain

March 28, 2026 Jalal HB No comments

Nothing in our lives functions with a balance if there is no accountability for acountability ensures responsibility, foster trust, and drive performance by making individuals answerable for their actions and results. Accountability thus lays down guidelinnes for one's actions to prevent abuse thus creating a culture where people learn from mistakes and are rewarded for achieving goals - and also held responsible for their failures. This is true for any organization or even daily funcioning of our households so that everyone weighs one's acctions for the betterment of a household or an organization and not otherwise.

When we raise the level of accountability and view it from the perspective of the Creator of the entire universe, we find that every step we take is being watched and those who go by the Divine commandments contained in the Divine Scriptures will be the one's who will gain and those who defy these commandments will be the ultimate losers on the day when actions will put on the scales.

This is the very theme of Surah At Taghabun which asks: “Are you investing in what will last—or what will disappear?”

We have already published the Tafseer / Exegesis of the Sürah, which can be accessed from by clicking on the highlighted link: Sürah At Taghābun - Mutual Loss and Gain - Exegesis / Tafseer - 64th Chapter of Al Qur'an.

Herein under we will only present an overview entire Sūrah and some of the selected verses for selective reading / references. The following overview includes the context, major themes and subjects and lessons that we can learn from this Sūrah, followed by references to some of the selected verses already published.

Context of Revelation

Why was it revealed? (Context)

This surah was revealed when the Muslim community was established but facing internal tests. Since some people were weak in commitment, distracted by family and wealth, there was a need to strengthen belief in the Hereafter.
So the surah stresses the need for the (1) Believers (to stay firm and sincere), (2) Hypocrites / weak believers to correct priorities, and (3) Man to be mindful of the ultimate accountability on a day that will be Day of the Loss and Gain.

What is the Surah about? (Main Themes) The theme of this surah is invitation to the Faith and obedience (to Allah) and the teaching of good morals. The sequence followed is as under:

Allah’s absolute authority (Verses 1–4) - the first four verses are addressed to all men;

The universe in which they live is not Godless, but its Creator, Master and Ruler is an All Powerful God, and everything in it testifies to His being most Perfect and absolutely faultless.
That is everything in the heavens and earth glorifies Allah, who created humans, though some believe while some don’t - like the atheists of today.
The surah thus sends a strong Message: You are not random—you are created with purpose and watched. Its Creator has created it with truth no one should be under the delusion that it is a mock show, which began without a purpose and will come to an end without a purpose.

The Reality of belief vs disbelief (Verses 5–10) The verses 5-10 are addressed to those men, who do not believe in the invitation of the Qur'an

The Day of Judgment is called “Taghābun” (Day of ultimate loss/gain)
The excellent form that God has created you with and the choice that He has given you to choose between belief and unbelief is not a useless and meaningless activity so that it may be of no consequence whether you choose belief or unbelief. In fact, God is watching as to how you exercise your choice.
This gives out a clear Message: Past nations denied truth and were destroyed since they did not follow the truth and rejected a day of accountability.
However, those who understood the truth and refrained from following the footsteps of the deniers will finally succeed both in this world and the Hereafter.

Tests of wealth and family (Verses 11–15) Verses 11-18 relate to those men who accept and believe in this invitation.

One of the most practical sections is that Wealth and children can be a trial (fitnah)
Though not necessarily evil, but these can distract from remembrance of Allah - or become a means of reward if handled correctly
It adds that you have not been created irresponsible and un-answerable. You have to return ultimately to your Creator, and have to meet the Being who is aware of everything in the universe, from Whom nothing is hidden, to Whom even the innermost thoughts of the minds are known.

Call to obedience and sincerity (Verses 16–18) Fear Allah as much as you can, spend in charity and Avoid greed - for Allah is Most Appreciative and Forbearing

Who is it addressed to?

Primarily to the Muslims in Medina (dealing with real-life responsibilities)
But also to all believers (across time)
And Indirectly to those who Deny truth and Are careless about the Hereafter

How do we relate it to our life today?

This surah is extremely practical and relevant for:

Balancing dunya and akhirah Today much of our focus is on our families, career and money. But this surah says: The surah says: These are tests, not ultimate goals
Redefining success:

The modern definition of success is wealth, status, and worldly achievements.
Qur’anic definition: The real Success is what you gain on Day of Taghābun

Dealing with life’s difficulties: Verse theme: “No calamity happens except by Allah’s permission”
Family as a test

Very relevant today as sometimes family may distract from deen and pressure toward wrong.
The surah thus teaches: Love them—but don’t lose your آخِرَة because of them

Personal accountability in a distracted world: Social media, culture, traditions and trends are a test of accountability. But this surah reminds that one day you will stand alone before Allah and none of the wordily successes will come to help you.

Core Message of the Surah

Life is a test of choices, not just experiences. You are created, watched and tested. Your real result appears on Day of Loss and Gain.

Final Reflection:

Surah At-Taghabun asks a powerful question: “Are you investing in what will last—or what will disappear?”
Every wordily success, wealth, status or even the relationship fade away - but Faith, sincerity, and good deeds remain forever, both in this world and the Hereafter.

Now let us share herein some of the selected ayat / verses from this surah already published:

Verse 11: No misfortune ever befalls unless it be by Allah's leave
Verse 14: Believers!! Beware of enemies within (A verse specially for Reverts)
Verse 16: Hold Allah in awe - And listen and obey, and be charitable, for this is for your own good
Verse 15-16: Which two things are a trial for the Believers?
Verse 17: Give Goodly Loan to Allah - He will increase it Several Fold

In time we will add more selected ayat / verses from this surah.

وَمَا عَلَيۡنَاۤ اِلَّا الۡبَلٰغُ الۡمُبِيۡنُ‏

(36:17) and our duty is no more than to clearly convey the Message.”

May Allah forgive me if my posts ever imply a piety far greater than I possess. I am most in need of guidance.

You may also refer to our exclusive reference page: Selected verses from selected Surahs of Al-Qurʾān for compiled verses from other surahs.

You may also refer to our Reference Pages and Understanding Al Qur'an for knowing more about Islam and Qur'ān.

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