No one on earth is ready to listen to the dreadful word: Death. No matter how old one may be, yet thinking of dying leaves shudders of fear and one prays to live yet a little longer. But the question is when everyone has to die one day, why then be afraid of it? The simple answer is that we are not really ready to die for we are afraid of entering into our graves with load of sins and wrongdoings. But do we do anything about it it or just keep fearing of dying?
In fact, death is not the worst thing, for it is a reality and will befall at the appointed time. The worst thing is dying without Imaan, dying without righteous deeds, dying without having repented, dying without having your heart attached to Allah, dying without having lived your life upon Islam, dying in a state that is displeasing to Allah. This is the worst thing.
In Islam, the concept of death is approached with a deep spiritual and philosophical understanding, and the fear of it is not seen as something inherently wrong, but rather it depends on one's relationship with Allah (God) and the way they approach life and the afterlife. Let us examine the fear of death in more broader terms:
Fear as a reminder of accountability:
The Qur'an and the Sunnah emphasize the importance of being mindful of one’s actions because everyone will eventually face judgment after death. A righteous fear of death can serve as a reminder of the inevitable meeting with Allah and the accountability for one's deeds.
The Qur'an mentions: "Every soul will taste death" (Qur'an 3:185). This verse serves as a reminder that death is certain and inevitable for all.
Fear of death as an opportunity for self-reflection:
Fear of death can motivate a believer to reflect on their life and their relationship with Allah. It encourages one to live in accordance with the teachings of the Qur'an and Sunnah, constantly striving to purify their soul, increase their good deeds, and avoid sinful behavior.
The Prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him) said: "Remember often the destroyer of pleasures (death)" (Sunan Ibn Majah). This hadith encourages believers to remember death regularly to inspire them to live with a sense of purpose and mindfulness.
Fear of death due to lack of preparation:
Those who have not prepared for the afterlife through good deeds, repentance, and striving to follow Allah’s commands may fear death. This fear is often linked to the anxiety over facing the consequences of one’s actions on the Day of Judgment.
Allah says in the Qur'an: "But as for he who feared the position of his Lord and prevented the soul from [its] desire, then indeed, Paradise will be his refuge" (Qur'an 79:40-41). This verse suggests that fear of Allah and striving to live a righteous life is essential for those who desire to attain Paradise.
The believer’s relationship with death:
For a true believer who has faith in Allah, death is not necessarily something to fear. The Prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him) described death as a transition to a better state for the righteous, who will be rewarded in the afterlife. For such a believer, death is seen as a release from the hardships of this world and a step toward eternal peace.
The Prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him) said: "Death is the bridge that connects the believer to his or her reward" (Sahih Muslim).
The non-believer’s fear of death:
On the other hand, those who disbelieve or live heedlessly without contemplating the afterlife may have a greater fear of death, as they are uncertain about what lies beyond it. The Qur'an highlights that those who reject faith live in fear and uncertainty about the end.
"And those who disbelieve say, 'When we have become dust, will we then be in a creation revived?'" (Qur'an 32:10).
Striking a balance between fear and hope:
The Qur'an and Sunnah teach that while it’s natural to fear death, believers are also encouraged to balance this fear with hope in Allah’s mercy and forgiveness. The fear of death should not paralyze a person but should encourage them to live rightly. Additionally, they should trust in Allah’s compassion and hope for the best outcome in the afterlife.
Allah says: "Say, 'Indeed, my Lord is the Forgiving, full of mercy. But His punishment is the painful punishment.'" (Qur'an 18:58).
In conclusion, fear of death can be healthy if it drives one to live a life of righteousness and preparation for the afterlife. The Qur'an and Sunnah do not encourage paralyzing fear of death, but rather a mindful awareness of it, which helps in leading a life that is pleasing to Allah and in striving for the eternal rewards that await in the hereafter.
May Allāh (سبحانه و تعالى) help us understand Qur'ān and follow the Sunnah of Prophet Muhammad ﷺ, which is embodiment of commandments of Allah contained in the Qur'ān. May Allah help us to be like the ones He loves and let our lives be lived helping others and not making others' lives miserable or unlivable. May all our wrong doings, whether intentional or unintentional, be forgiven before the angel of death knocks on our door.
وَمَا عَلَيۡنَاۤ اِلَّا الۡبَلٰغُ الۡمُبِيۡنُ
(36:17) and our duty is no more than to clearly convey the Message.”
That is Our duty is only to convey to you the message that Allah has entrusted us with. Then it is for you to accept it or reject it. We have not been made responsible for making you accept it forcibly, and if you do not accept it, we shall not be seized in consequence of your disbelief, you will yourselves be answerable for your actions on Day of Resurrection.
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